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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 507747" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Sending caring thoughts and hugs your way. You are at a critical crossroad that could change your life, the lives of your children..and, of course, your husband. You are the expert on your life so outsiders, like me, can't really input too much.</p><p></p><p>on the other hand I know that there is unbelievable stress raising difficult child's. Sometimes the stress and lack of rest can spill over into marriage in a really negative way. How do I know that? Well, I chose divorce when I was 29 and I still wonder if I shouldn't have insisted on marriage counseling before I opted to be a single parent. At the time my husband and I had different views on parenting difficult children. We had lost the connection that we had once shared as a couple. Our life was not the way either one of us had dreamed it would be. BUT life as a single parent was much more stressful than I expected it to be....on me and on the children.</p><p></p><p>I hope the best for you. I'm guessing that FB isn't really the main issue between you and your spouse. It is difficult to face the "real" problems but I have my fingers crossed that you will explore joint therapy or good marriage counseling before you make any decisions. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 507747, member: 35"] Sending caring thoughts and hugs your way. You are at a critical crossroad that could change your life, the lives of your children..and, of course, your husband. You are the expert on your life so outsiders, like me, can't really input too much. on the other hand I know that there is unbelievable stress raising difficult child's. Sometimes the stress and lack of rest can spill over into marriage in a really negative way. How do I know that? Well, I chose divorce when I was 29 and I still wonder if I shouldn't have insisted on marriage counseling before I opted to be a single parent. At the time my husband and I had different views on parenting difficult children. We had lost the connection that we had once shared as a couple. Our life was not the way either one of us had dreamed it would be. BUT life as a single parent was much more stressful than I expected it to be....on me and on the children. I hope the best for you. I'm guessing that FB isn't really the main issue between you and your spouse. It is difficult to face the "real" problems but I have my fingers crossed that you will explore joint therapy or good marriage counseling before you make any decisions. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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