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7 year old called cops this morning !!!!!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 606959"><p>Very True InsaneCdn!</p><p></p><p>MidwestMom- True, and they do focus on that more, so far he hasn't had outbursts there, just the concentration thing! Oh, well to the exception of yesterday morning yelling ShutUp!!! out of the car where everyone heard and the teachers had to puts sock, shoe and belt on <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> but, Those three teachers are solidly working with him daily and the Principal called him into her office to ask him if he was ok and just listened to him talk <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> So, at the moment, I will take it day by day.</p><p></p><p>tiredmommy, Im glad yours helped <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Malika, yes I have read the book when you all suggested it the other year <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Time to re-read it <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I see what your saying and it does make things worse if they are spoken to in certain ways. My son is the same way, but even sometimes when we are not having a problems and we are soft spoken , giggly etc he will get upset/blow. 5:30 is early, I never wanted my kids up until 6 or 6:30am ( we leave at 7am to meet another parent there with her child at 7:15- She has to drive to other side of town for work) , they walk down at 7:30am- plus it takes 10- 15 minutes depending traffic to get to school. But When I did try those times on an extremely rare ocasion hes up dressed quickly and in good mood, yes 30 minutes will do it incl breakfast. But 90% plus of the other times he can take an hour or more to get dressed, not including another hour to get up. The shower I wanted him to take it and I give him time to get up, wake up etc then get in. But hes ok when I say" Im going to finish getting breakfast ready or whatever while I give you time to get up , he says ok, ill tell you, I walk away and start. He will still blow saying I wasnt in there and He gives me seconds to run to the bathroom to start the bath and he says never mind you dont want me to have a bath and slams the door. Well, after 30 plus non stop minutes of that he says can I just get dressed I said yes but he still gave me the same deal. So I then said" ok, your not getting ready, your not going to be able to go Im going to sleep. Well that set him off! Yikes. Your right, I know a few things to avoid but I still have a long way to go to figure out how to read him better! Thank you for your advice! Im going to watch and listen closer, hopefully I can get a camcorder thing so I can replay and see in details <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 606959"] Very True InsaneCdn! MidwestMom- True, and they do focus on that more, so far he hasn't had outbursts there, just the concentration thing! Oh, well to the exception of yesterday morning yelling ShutUp!!! out of the car where everyone heard and the teachers had to puts sock, shoe and belt on :( but, Those three teachers are solidly working with him daily and the Principal called him into her office to ask him if he was ok and just listened to him talk :) So, at the moment, I will take it day by day. tiredmommy, Im glad yours helped :) Malika, yes I have read the book when you all suggested it the other year :) Time to re-read it :) I see what your saying and it does make things worse if they are spoken to in certain ways. My son is the same way, but even sometimes when we are not having a problems and we are soft spoken , giggly etc he will get upset/blow. 5:30 is early, I never wanted my kids up until 6 or 6:30am ( we leave at 7am to meet another parent there with her child at 7:15- She has to drive to other side of town for work) , they walk down at 7:30am- plus it takes 10- 15 minutes depending traffic to get to school. But When I did try those times on an extremely rare ocasion hes up dressed quickly and in good mood, yes 30 minutes will do it incl breakfast. But 90% plus of the other times he can take an hour or more to get dressed, not including another hour to get up. The shower I wanted him to take it and I give him time to get up, wake up etc then get in. But hes ok when I say" Im going to finish getting breakfast ready or whatever while I give you time to get up , he says ok, ill tell you, I walk away and start. He will still blow saying I wasnt in there and He gives me seconds to run to the bathroom to start the bath and he says never mind you dont want me to have a bath and slams the door. Well, after 30 plus non stop minutes of that he says can I just get dressed I said yes but he still gave me the same deal. So I then said" ok, your not getting ready, your not going to be able to go Im going to sleep. Well that set him off! Yikes. Your right, I know a few things to avoid but I still have a long way to go to figure out how to read him better! Thank you for your advice! Im going to watch and listen closer, hopefully I can get a camcorder thing so I can replay and see in details :) [/QUOTE]
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