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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 528661"><p>Is there any way to go over case manager and foster mom's heads? They are acting like you are the problem and you aren't. If you can't get anyone to listen to you you will need a lawyer. If you get one make sure they have a won a case against cps before. If you get to move him out of their jurisdiction maybe this is mute point. </p><p></p><p>I was wondering if you could get foster mom to daily write down the behaviors that your son does and maybe e-mail them to the therapist and you? This would take the "everything is fine" out of the equation. It would also provide a good record for all those idiots out there that don't believe parents. It is possible that your son is honeymooning with foster mom and that is why she can redirect him. </p><p></p><p>Yes, your son needs testing and not just from a psychologist. It sounds like your son can't handle transitions from what he thinks to what someone else thinks (I know, big understatement.) Also sounds like there could've been trauma at birth that started all this. I know that our pediatrician gave my kids MRIs, checked their thyroid, and other tests just to make sure there wasn't a medical component that we were missing. I know seizures can mimic some mental illnesses too. </p><p></p><p>difficult child 1 also demanded 100% of my attention and if he didn't get it he would start attacking the other kids. I had to learn to always have part of my attention on difficult child 1. The only time I get to relax is when difficult child 1 is in his room. We have an alarm on his bedroom door so I'd could know if he got out. Its not fair to the other kids, but I don't know how to change that. We would also have to have different babysitters. difficult child 1 was so good for everyone else that the babysitters didn't believed me so they wouldn't watch him well enough. </p><p></p><p>How often do you guys move? If cps won't give your son back to you directly maybe someone in your family can take him while you get all the testing done and get him stable enough to come back home. Or is the behavioral school residential? Is behavioral services in your new town the same as cps here? </p><p></p><p>Now is a great time to get him an IEP. You can have it ready for him to start the next school year. My kids IEPs are this month. You don't have to have the tdocs permission to start getting an IEP. That is with the school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 528661"] Is there any way to go over case manager and foster mom's heads? They are acting like you are the problem and you aren't. If you can't get anyone to listen to you you will need a lawyer. If you get one make sure they have a won a case against cps before. If you get to move him out of their jurisdiction maybe this is mute point. I was wondering if you could get foster mom to daily write down the behaviors that your son does and maybe e-mail them to the therapist and you? This would take the "everything is fine" out of the equation. It would also provide a good record for all those idiots out there that don't believe parents. It is possible that your son is honeymooning with foster mom and that is why she can redirect him. Yes, your son needs testing and not just from a psychologist. It sounds like your son can't handle transitions from what he thinks to what someone else thinks (I know, big understatement.) Also sounds like there could've been trauma at birth that started all this. I know that our pediatrician gave my kids MRIs, checked their thyroid, and other tests just to make sure there wasn't a medical component that we were missing. I know seizures can mimic some mental illnesses too. difficult child 1 also demanded 100% of my attention and if he didn't get it he would start attacking the other kids. I had to learn to always have part of my attention on difficult child 1. The only time I get to relax is when difficult child 1 is in his room. We have an alarm on his bedroom door so I'd could know if he got out. Its not fair to the other kids, but I don't know how to change that. We would also have to have different babysitters. difficult child 1 was so good for everyone else that the babysitters didn't believed me so they wouldn't watch him well enough. How often do you guys move? If cps won't give your son back to you directly maybe someone in your family can take him while you get all the testing done and get him stable enough to come back home. Or is the behavioral school residential? Is behavioral services in your new town the same as cps here? Now is a great time to get him an IEP. You can have it ready for him to start the next school year. My kids IEPs are this month. You don't have to have the tdocs permission to start getting an IEP. That is with the school. [/QUOTE]
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