Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
A few ?'s
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 547153" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>My f i l told me my hyper verbal, impulsive 7 yr old that he needed a good butt whipping. I told him if he knew me and thought that a beating would fix difficult child and I wouldn't have done it, then he doesn't really understand.</p><p>Everyone is an armchair quarterback. It makes a mother feel bad for their child and makes us feel bad as parents. It is not what you need. I just wanted someone to say, "you are doing so much to help your son, what are you doing?"</p><p>I stopped telling family much. I tried to forewarn difficult child before we got to their house of what the expectation was for behavior because he really didn't have a clue. If there is constant criticism, stay home. Invite family to your home so difficult child is in his own environment. </p><p>A neuropsychologist exam is a great baseline and gives you insight into your child's abilities and weaknesses. </p><p>You are the captain of this ship. You get the information and will help direct your child's parenting and education. It isn't going to give you a treatment/educational/parenting plan. </p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 547153, member: 3"] My f i l told me my hyper verbal, impulsive 7 yr old that he needed a good butt whipping. I told him if he knew me and thought that a beating would fix difficult child and I wouldn't have done it, then he doesn't really understand. Everyone is an armchair quarterback. It makes a mother feel bad for their child and makes us feel bad as parents. It is not what you need. I just wanted someone to say, "you are doing so much to help your son, what are you doing?" I stopped telling family much. I tried to forewarn difficult child before we got to their house of what the expectation was for behavior because he really didn't have a clue. If there is constant criticism, stay home. Invite family to your home so difficult child is in his own environment. A neuropsychologist exam is a great baseline and gives you insight into your child's abilities and weaknesses. You are the captain of this ship. You get the information and will help direct your child's parenting and education. It isn't going to give you a treatment/educational/parenting plan. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
A few ?'s
Top