As you may have heard, I'm pushing for visits between kt & wm before they turn 18 ~ teach them to be siblings before they seek each other out in a more disturbing manner. There is a double team treatment meeting this morning (something like 26 strong ~ I've lost count to be honest. Could be more, could be less.). I get so lost in meetings this big ~ too many professionals, too few parents. I could use some positive board mojo that there are supports in place for the continuation of visits instead of concerns of child endangerment. I'll be heading into that meeting to terminate wm's therapist. I'll be suggesting that therapy be more forward thinking based instead of all this concentration on memories that haunt. I truly believe these memories would be less daunting to the tweedles if the tdocs would just let it drop & only address it when kt or wm bring it up. The elephant in the room must be addressed. kt & wm need to see each other as people, as siblings, not this incredibly huge, disturbing memory. I need the supports to make this happen. AND I truly believe that being twins, their anxiety will lessen if they can see one another more frequently than every 18 months or so. I'm also, once again, bringing to the table that this is a family situation, not just wm's issues or kt's issues. It needs to be addressed individually, yes, but also as a family. I'm suggesting that if visits bring about negative behaviors that we just don't stop like in the past; we have to give this more than a one hit wonder type visit to make it work. I want siblings, not lovers, on my hands once the tweedles become adults. Now is the time or it won't be done at all.