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A husband scenario...am I taking this all wrong?
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 374328" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Its too late for cfg and shooting, as I already let her participate, and I enjoy doing so. Wee participates, also, and I really do enjoy watching the kids learn and be a part of the group. </p><p> </p><p>But I did sit her down the other night and tell her my game plan for this school year.</p><p> </p><p>When it comes time to go do something fun (and face it folks, I'm the fun one around here), it will be her school work that decides if she joins me. If she wants to go to Florida with us in the winter, her work will be done and turned in. If its not, its not even an option. Beyond that, I'm out of the school loop. I don't CARE if her work is done or not. She can not do a single assignment this year, and she won't hear from me. If she wants help, I'll be glad to help her, but she has to ask. Beyond that, I'm done. But if you're going with me, here's my expectations.</p><p> </p><p>If she wants to hang out with me, her actions will indicate as such and she will dress and apply makeup in a manner fitting to where we are goiing, or I will leave her at home. Lie to me? You'll be left. Lie about school. YOu'll be left. Make up awful stories about your mom? You'll be left. Wear trashy ho clothes and makeup? You'll be left.</p><p> </p><p>I am not telling her what to do anymore. I'm just telling what she has to do in order to do anything with me. We'll see how this flies.</p><p> </p><p>As for husband and the horse, tho....I've had to let that one go for a bit. I have to get thru tomorrow. Then, hopefully, I can get back to the rest of my life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 374328, member: 1848"] Its too late for cfg and shooting, as I already let her participate, and I enjoy doing so. Wee participates, also, and I really do enjoy watching the kids learn and be a part of the group. But I did sit her down the other night and tell her my game plan for this school year. When it comes time to go do something fun (and face it folks, I'm the fun one around here), it will be her school work that decides if she joins me. If she wants to go to Florida with us in the winter, her work will be done and turned in. If its not, its not even an option. Beyond that, I'm out of the school loop. I don't CARE if her work is done or not. She can not do a single assignment this year, and she won't hear from me. If she wants help, I'll be glad to help her, but she has to ask. Beyond that, I'm done. But if you're going with me, here's my expectations. If she wants to hang out with me, her actions will indicate as such and she will dress and apply makeup in a manner fitting to where we are goiing, or I will leave her at home. Lie to me? You'll be left. Lie about school. YOu'll be left. Make up awful stories about your mom? You'll be left. Wear trashy ho clothes and makeup? You'll be left. I am not telling her what to do anymore. I'm just telling what she has to do in order to do anything with me. We'll see how this flies. As for husband and the horse, tho....I've had to let that one go for a bit. I have to get thru tomorrow. Then, hopefully, I can get back to the rest of my life. [/QUOTE]
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