The big boys and husband built a very nice dock in our pond Sunday. difficult child 2 was present, and actually did help quite a bit. It was a good day. As he and I were walking to the house for drinks, he asked me to run. I said no, I wanted to just walk. He, of course, asked why. "Because I'm old, fat, and lazy" I said. He stopped, turned, and looked and me for a moment, and then said, "Mom, you're not fat!" Good news, ladies! I'm just old and lazy!