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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 688319" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This is hard to hear and I had to face it too with my daughter's friends.</p><p></p><p>The onus is on our adult kids. Not the partners THEY choose for their own reasons. I'm not saying girlfriend isn't an influence. I am saying that your daughter is old enough not to follow her lead, no matter how smart this girlfriend is. It is your daughters choice of friends and now girlfriend that is your daughter s problem. If she had not hooked up with this woman, she still has a history of picking bad people in her life.</p><p></p><p>She will hopefully get tired of her life enough to dump the losers and get into therapy. Maybe the place she is at now will help her get her life together. I sure am hoping so.</p><p></p><p>Again, this is not on you. You have power over one person...yourself. you can't fix your daughter, but you can decide to react to her drama differently. You need to be well for your other loved ones and most of all for yourself.</p><p></p><p>Do take care. Hugs!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 688319, member: 1550"] This is hard to hear and I had to face it too with my daughter's friends. The onus is on our adult kids. Not the partners THEY choose for their own reasons. I'm not saying girlfriend isn't an influence. I am saying that your daughter is old enough not to follow her lead, no matter how smart this girlfriend is. It is your daughters choice of friends and now girlfriend that is your daughter s problem. If she had not hooked up with this woman, she still has a history of picking bad people in her life. She will hopefully get tired of her life enough to dump the losers and get into therapy. Maybe the place she is at now will help her get her life together. I sure am hoping so. Again, this is not on you. You have power over one person...yourself. you can't fix your daughter, but you can decide to react to her drama differently. You need to be well for your other loved ones and most of all for yourself. Do take care. Hugs!! [/QUOTE]
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