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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 750149" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I have one kid like yours. We did all we could for her and have of lately moved on. Our kids don't define us. We do. </p><p></p><p>I have seen this toxic parent stuff too and I think it pushes many people to disown family. It is accepted. It is too bad.</p><p></p><p>My husband and I have decided to be with the friends and family who love us and treat us well. We love our daughter, but we liove others too. We have two other kids, other relatives and friends who act like family. They are our family.</p><p></p><p>Your kids are in their 30s and should have.no expectation of living with you and trying to force you to take a DNA test is abusive AND racist. I did much for my daughter. Too much. But a DNA test would have been absolutely a NO. I love people of all races and creeds and would not play into this with Kay. </p><p></p><p>I know how it is with kids like this. My best advice is to get therapy, move on, and enjoy life without your negative children. </p><p></p><p> Yes, its hard, but it doesn't seem they give you any joy or pleasure. Give them to God. Rediscover yourself. You are free now. I feel for you and hope you can see that you are a good person and don't need to continue being abused. Find hobbies and other passions and hang out with nice people. Let your kids treat you nice or let them live their own nasty lives. Please be good to YOU and GET THERAPY. Much love from me.</p><p></p><p>Give your kids to God. Take care of yourself first.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 750149, member: 23706"] I have one kid like yours. We did all we could for her and have of lately moved on. Our kids don't define us. We do. I have seen this toxic parent stuff too and I think it pushes many people to disown family. It is accepted. It is too bad. My husband and I have decided to be with the friends and family who love us and treat us well. We love our daughter, but we liove others too. We have two other kids, other relatives and friends who act like family. They are our family. Your kids are in their 30s and should have.no expectation of living with you and trying to force you to take a DNA test is abusive AND racist. I did much for my daughter. Too much. But a DNA test would have been absolutely a NO. I love people of all races and creeds and would not play into this with Kay. I know how it is with kids like this. My best advice is to get therapy, move on, and enjoy life without your negative children. Yes, its hard, but it doesn't seem they give you any joy or pleasure. Give them to God. Rediscover yourself. You are free now. I feel for you and hope you can see that you are a good person and don't need to continue being abused. Find hobbies and other passions and hang out with nice people. Let your kids treat you nice or let them live their own nasty lives. Please be good to YOU and GET THERAPY. Much love from me. Give your kids to God. Take care of yourself first. [/QUOTE]
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