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<blockquote data-quote="kmonthie" data-source="post: 344617" data-attributes="member: 9093"><p>Thanks for your responses. He was recommended to a 6 mth drug treatment program by the Psch. but the treatment center determined he was not a candidate for in-hospital drug treatment and recommend the IOP. The case worker/ probation officer recommended we start where we did and give him a chance. She said that if we start out with the 6 months then if it fails, what do we have? At this point if he violates probation or has a positive drug test we can send him to 30 day program followed by the 6 months. </p><p> </p><p>He knows how to be a good boy and played that role for all the authorities. He has now been home for 6 days, the first 2 were pink cloud days. Just glad to be out of jail. Monday he went back to same school but we got his schedule changed out of the class with the girl. Options to change to another school in the district would not have been an improvement and everyone agreed it would be worse. He has forgiven the girl all her sins and still rails about my invasion of his privacy. Poppy ****. The rest of the week has been a combat zone. husband and I have now agreed that we will wear his probation officer out if we have to. This was her idea anyway.. </p><p> </p><p>Probation calls for IOP and continued counseling. It is a strict probation with a 9pm curfew, no drugs, alcohol or tobacco products. He's required to be at school and maintain his grade point avg of at least a 3.0. I have his cell phone, I-touch and have passworded him out of the computers. He is being drug tested in 2 places and his free time at this point is from 8p-9p. Study time from 9p-11pm lights out. It was recommended that he have no contact with the girl but fell short of a court order. The probation officer didn't want to have to police this or bust him on a violation for talking to her at school.</p><p> </p><p>He informed me today that if I did not allow him to see the girl outside of school, well, I already knew what he could do.... I'm looking into private treatment centers any way..... He just doesn't get it.</p><p> </p><p>I know I've only just begun on this journey but I am finding it difficult to get any type of legal action against the girl, she hasn't broken the law. The mother is in denial and the father is out of the loop.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for being here. I know I've worn my family and friends out just getting to this point. I am passed being hurt and tearful and right now I am just plain ******.</p><p> </p><p>K in KY</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kmonthie, post: 344617, member: 9093"] Thanks for your responses. He was recommended to a 6 mth drug treatment program by the Psch. but the treatment center determined he was not a candidate for in-hospital drug treatment and recommend the IOP. The case worker/ probation officer recommended we start where we did and give him a chance. She said that if we start out with the 6 months then if it fails, what do we have? At this point if he violates probation or has a positive drug test we can send him to 30 day program followed by the 6 months. He knows how to be a good boy and played that role for all the authorities. He has now been home for 6 days, the first 2 were pink cloud days. Just glad to be out of jail. Monday he went back to same school but we got his schedule changed out of the class with the girl. Options to change to another school in the district would not have been an improvement and everyone agreed it would be worse. He has forgiven the girl all her sins and still rails about my invasion of his privacy. Poppy ****. The rest of the week has been a combat zone. husband and I have now agreed that we will wear his probation officer out if we have to. This was her idea anyway.. Probation calls for IOP and continued counseling. It is a strict probation with a 9pm curfew, no drugs, alcohol or tobacco products. He's required to be at school and maintain his grade point avg of at least a 3.0. I have his cell phone, I-touch and have passworded him out of the computers. He is being drug tested in 2 places and his free time at this point is from 8p-9p. Study time from 9p-11pm lights out. It was recommended that he have no contact with the girl but fell short of a court order. The probation officer didn't want to have to police this or bust him on a violation for talking to her at school. He informed me today that if I did not allow him to see the girl outside of school, well, I already knew what he could do.... I'm looking into private treatment centers any way..... He just doesn't get it. I know I've only just begun on this journey but I am finding it difficult to get any type of legal action against the girl, she hasn't broken the law. The mother is in denial and the father is out of the loop. Thanks for being here. I know I've worn my family and friends out just getting to this point. I am passed being hurt and tearful and right now I am just plain ******. K in KY [/QUOTE]
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