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<blockquote data-quote="Guidance seeker" data-source="post: 727512" data-attributes="member: 22632"><p>LBL - I can imagine your frustration at him when he wouldn’t get up. I have been there so many times and I would be up early running round preparing his breakfast, trying to make things run smoothly when he had school, college, an exam, work etc and he would lie there oblivious, he would be nasty to me for waking him up too. That’s one thing I don’t miss since we put him out. </p><p></p><p>He hasn’t worked since March last year, I put him out in April. I applied for every job he had for him and he lost every single job. He’s currently signed off sick after advice from hostel staff last year that they did not think he was able to hold down a job and was on the wrong benefits. I agree with them really but didn’t ever want him to go down the benefits route - I always think that almost everyone is capable of doing something and I believe he is too if he finds some stability.</p><p></p><p>Nothing seems to work that we do and the more we try, the worse they are and we are the ones that end up stressed and anxious. You have done all you can, take time for yourself.</p><p></p><p>I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Guidance seeker, post: 727512, member: 22632"] LBL - I can imagine your frustration at him when he wouldn’t get up. I have been there so many times and I would be up early running round preparing his breakfast, trying to make things run smoothly when he had school, college, an exam, work etc and he would lie there oblivious, he would be nasty to me for waking him up too. That’s one thing I don’t miss since we put him out. He hasn’t worked since March last year, I put him out in April. I applied for every job he had for him and he lost every single job. He’s currently signed off sick after advice from hostel staff last year that they did not think he was able to hold down a job and was on the wrong benefits. I agree with them really but didn’t ever want him to go down the benefits route - I always think that almost everyone is capable of doing something and I believe he is too if he finds some stability. Nothing seems to work that we do and the more we try, the worse they are and we are the ones that end up stressed and anxious. You have done all you can, take time for yourself. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. [/QUOTE]
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