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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 727521" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Littleboylost, I am praying that you will get a good, decent night sleep.. Being tired and having to deal with a troubled child is very very hard. A good night sleep with take some of the agony out of it. I did get tickled when you wrote that about award season and your son would win the award for drama. I will be using your statement with my daughter. Also your 'drama lama'' I will be using.</em></p><p><em>The pain you are experiencing is so deep. I have to keep working on knowing that my daughter is a grown a-- adult and get the vision out of my head that she is my sweet little girl. Your son is younger than my daughter but I have been where you are now and it was more stressful because she was staying at my house off and on. While in my house, she made our lives living hell. She took what ever she wanted I had to hide everything.</em></p><p><em>Just want you to know that when he does move out be it jail or his own place it will force him to take care of his basic needs himself. I realized I did way too much for my daughter and it kept her stuck. I did things to help her become successful and at the time I thought independent. The more I did the less she did for herself. It was a hard balance. I was a completely different child, if my parents did something for me, I was so grateful and used it as a stepping stone to move even more forward.. I thought my daughter would be like that but it does not work with her.</em></p><p><em>The hard part about my daughter is that I have to go so against what I think is good and right, a whole new way of thinking. My son was grateful for everything I did and would tell me so often. he used everything to move forward and share. I can understand why some parents have to break all ties, they have to for health reasons. Sending you love, compassion and understand in abundance.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 727521, member: 22416"] [I]Littleboylost, I am praying that you will get a good, decent night sleep.. Being tired and having to deal with a troubled child is very very hard. A good night sleep with take some of the agony out of it. I did get tickled when you wrote that about award season and your son would win the award for drama. I will be using your statement with my daughter. Also your 'drama lama'' I will be using. The pain you are experiencing is so deep. I have to keep working on knowing that my daughter is a grown a-- adult and get the vision out of my head that she is my sweet little girl. Your son is younger than my daughter but I have been where you are now and it was more stressful because she was staying at my house off and on. While in my house, she made our lives living hell. She took what ever she wanted I had to hide everything. Just want you to know that when he does move out be it jail or his own place it will force him to take care of his basic needs himself. I realized I did way too much for my daughter and it kept her stuck. I did things to help her become successful and at the time I thought independent. The more I did the less she did for herself. It was a hard balance. I was a completely different child, if my parents did something for me, I was so grateful and used it as a stepping stone to move even more forward.. I thought my daughter would be like that but it does not work with her. The hard part about my daughter is that I have to go so against what I think is good and right, a whole new way of thinking. My son was grateful for everything I did and would tell me so often. he used everything to move forward and share. I can understand why some parents have to break all ties, they have to for health reasons. Sending you love, compassion and understand in abundance.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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