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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 727565" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Lbl. I am only now seeing this thread.</p><p></p><p>I feel so sorry to hear this.</p><p></p><p>I have one suggestion. I would go back and read your past threads. And really really see and accept what your journey has been.</p><p></p><p>Your fatigue, heartbreak, fury and frustration have been cumulative over many many months in response to trying every single thing that was possible and even the impossible. What has son done except dig a deeper hole? Who would not feel as you do. You are bearing the consequences both of his bad behavior and his mistreatment. And you carry the fear of the future and all of the wanting with which he batters you.</p><p></p><p>I am not saying he does this intentionally or that he has animus to you. I do not believe he does. And I have said before I believe he will change...g-d willing.</p><p> </p><p>Is being a mother to be a beast of burden who is beaten with a stick? That is what I have permitted for myself. My son did not do this to me. I let it happen. To be honest I chose it. I might do so again. But should I?</p><p></p><p>There is the opportunity to rethink this and for you to change this by allowing yourself to feel deep compassion for you and to reorder things with you not him as the person to be considered and cared for. There is a way out.</p><p></p><p>A fraction of this suffering is too much.</p><p></p><p>I do not know the answers. Except for that.</p><p></p><p>What a little shxt. Oops. Sorry.</p><p></p><p>Love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 727565, member: 18958"] Lbl. I am only now seeing this thread. I feel so sorry to hear this. I have one suggestion. I would go back and read your past threads. And really really see and accept what your journey has been. Your fatigue, heartbreak, fury and frustration have been cumulative over many many months in response to trying every single thing that was possible and even the impossible. What has son done except dig a deeper hole? Who would not feel as you do. You are bearing the consequences both of his bad behavior and his mistreatment. And you carry the fear of the future and all of the wanting with which he batters you. I am not saying he does this intentionally or that he has animus to you. I do not believe he does. And I have said before I believe he will change...g-d willing. Is being a mother to be a beast of burden who is beaten with a stick? That is what I have permitted for myself. My son did not do this to me. I let it happen. To be honest I chose it. I might do so again. But should I? There is the opportunity to rethink this and for you to change this by allowing yourself to feel deep compassion for you and to reorder things with you not him as the person to be considered and cared for. There is a way out. A fraction of this suffering is too much. I do not know the answers. Except for that. What a little shxt. Oops. Sorry. Love. [/QUOTE]
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