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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 651301" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Suz, now that I know more about his challenges, although ache may be an ache, he is actually an amazing young man and will probably get to the therapist...eventually.</p><p></p><p>Suz, it is so frustrating when our children, adult or not, won't tell us the truth about how they are doing. I have to deal with this all the time with Jumper. She is always "fine" only she isn't always fine. But that is the most I can get out of her, even when she is crying in my arms. She is very secretive about her feelings and does not like to talk about the things in her life that have gone wrong. I told my husband that it scares me because she will never let us know, for example, if she gets depressed and suicidal. Bart does and will, and that's actually a good thing with Bart. But Jumper does not share these things. The experience with her boyfriend, while a worldwide common happening, really changed her. She is not boy crazy and took the relationship seriously and is still mourning the loss of it. Every so often she lets that out. It has almost been a year. Talking about therapy with her is as useless as talking to the dogs about therapy. And whether or not she needs it; is that obsessed over it still, I don't know.</p><p></p><p>Oh, well. I hope ache has a good two weeks with you after he comes home. And although I don't know his sport or team, I already am cheering for him and hope he ends up having a great year and that his team wins <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 651301, member: 1550"] Suz, now that I know more about his challenges, although ache may be an ache, he is actually an amazing young man and will probably get to the therapist...eventually. Suz, it is so frustrating when our children, adult or not, won't tell us the truth about how they are doing. I have to deal with this all the time with Jumper. She is always "fine" only she isn't always fine. But that is the most I can get out of her, even when she is crying in my arms. She is very secretive about her feelings and does not like to talk about the things in her life that have gone wrong. I told my husband that it scares me because she will never let us know, for example, if she gets depressed and suicidal. Bart does and will, and that's actually a good thing with Bart. But Jumper does not share these things. The experience with her boyfriend, while a worldwide common happening, really changed her. She is not boy crazy and took the relationship seriously and is still mourning the loss of it. Every so often she lets that out. It has almost been a year. Talking about therapy with her is as useless as talking to the dogs about therapy. And whether or not she needs it; is that obsessed over it still, I don't know. Oh, well. I hope ache has a good two weeks with you after he comes home. And although I don't know his sport or team, I already am cheering for him and hope he ends up having a great year and that his team wins :) [/QUOTE]
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