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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 549434" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>TL, </p><p>I was not adopted but "let go of" ...abandoned if you will by my "dad". Did not meet the man til I was 17 as my mother and he divorced when I was 2. He had no interest in me. </p><p> </p><p>By the age of 13 I cried myself to sleep many nights feeling as though I was not worthy of being loved well by a father...Thinking to myself that maybe if I had been born a Boy he may not have abandoned me??? </p><p>When you are denied "love" from a parent...It can cause self hatred and self abuse in my opinion. </p><p>But I also believe that if you are genetically predisposed to be an addict that almost ANY pain is fuel. </p><p></p><p>I am glad to hear that your daughter is at peace with the adoption issue. </p><p>My hope is that one day your son will accept the help that you have so persistently tried to provide for him...and that he will grow into the young man he was meant to be! </p><p></p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 549434, member: 3305"] TL, I was not adopted but "let go of" ...abandoned if you will by my "dad". Did not meet the man til I was 17 as my mother and he divorced when I was 2. He had no interest in me. By the age of 13 I cried myself to sleep many nights feeling as though I was not worthy of being loved well by a father...Thinking to myself that maybe if I had been born a Boy he may not have abandoned me??? When you are denied "love" from a parent...It can cause self hatred and self abuse in my opinion. But I also believe that if you are genetically predisposed to be an addict that almost ANY pain is fuel. I am glad to hear that your daughter is at peace with the adoption issue. My hope is that one day your son will accept the help that you have so persistently tried to provide for him...and that he will grow into the young man he was meant to be! LMS [/QUOTE]
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