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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyC1234" data-source="post: 750815" data-attributes="member: 24338"><p>My 17 year old has been gone a lot and she's been staying at my mother-in-laws a lot lately and I just found out it's mostly because her sister is there. I don't want my 17 year old to feel that way, she's the good one and has great focus and knows what she wants, so I don't want to make her feel that I'm ignoring her because her sister is causing me so much stress. I believe its time for my daughter to execute on her plans. Her mindset is basically, I need to go to school amidst all of this. We keep telling her forget school for now that will come later you need to get your life together first...nope she's not having it and registered for classes this semester. She's constantly asking either me or her sister for rides and it's exhausting. I still have to drive my 15 year old around to Golf and Jiu jitsu classes and I like to go Yoga. Her sister, my other daughter, just tells her no. She is very resourceful she finds rides all the time and we live in a rural area.</p><p></p><p>With the first baby she was living with us and would work at the strip club at night and just never show up in the morning and if she did she was up all night and drinking most of the time. We finally said enough when she had friends over for a party on a weekend we were out of town and took the baby with us. We specially said no body over the house. That's when she went to stay at the baby's dad mom's house and she was doing the same thing to her. Leaving the baby and not showing up either until the next day or days later.</p><p></p><p>I'll keep reminding her that she has until the end of September execute on her plans. I honestly would not mind her staying if her actions were louder than her words. Most of the time she just tells us what we want to hear. I've been so stressed these last couple of weeks that I've lost about 7lbs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyC1234, post: 750815, member: 24338"] My 17 year old has been gone a lot and she's been staying at my mother-in-laws a lot lately and I just found out it's mostly because her sister is there. I don't want my 17 year old to feel that way, she's the good one and has great focus and knows what she wants, so I don't want to make her feel that I'm ignoring her because her sister is causing me so much stress. I believe its time for my daughter to execute on her plans. Her mindset is basically, I need to go to school amidst all of this. We keep telling her forget school for now that will come later you need to get your life together first...nope she's not having it and registered for classes this semester. She's constantly asking either me or her sister for rides and it's exhausting. I still have to drive my 15 year old around to Golf and Jiu jitsu classes and I like to go Yoga. Her sister, my other daughter, just tells her no. She is very resourceful she finds rides all the time and we live in a rural area. With the first baby she was living with us and would work at the strip club at night and just never show up in the morning and if she did she was up all night and drinking most of the time. We finally said enough when she had friends over for a party on a weekend we were out of town and took the baby with us. We specially said no body over the house. That's when she went to stay at the baby's dad mom's house and she was doing the same thing to her. Leaving the baby and not showing up either until the next day or days later. I'll keep reminding her that she has until the end of September execute on her plans. I honestly would not mind her staying if her actions were louder than her words. Most of the time she just tells us what we want to hear. I've been so stressed these last couple of weeks that I've lost about 7lbs. [/QUOTE]
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