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<blockquote data-quote="Cjc" data-source="post: 749605" data-attributes="member: 24127"><p>Hi Gettin’Older, thank you for reading and responding to my post. I am a step ahead of your suggestion of speaking to my sister. I have tried to speak to her regarding the situation on numerous occasions. She doesn’t make things any better. Every time I begin to approach her, she begins yelling. She’ll say she’s sick of both me and my daughter, we both need therapy, she wish we would leave her alone with all of our foolishness, just leave my daughter alone if she doesn’t want to be bothered.</p><p></p><p>My sister never had children. The three of us have always lived together. Years ago when my daughter was around 8, I began noticing how my sister was spoiling my daughter with material things. I was constantly telling her not to extend everything to her. My sister gets angry because I tell her she is responsible for my daughters spoiled behavior. Friends and other family members have made comments about my sisters persuasive behavior with my daughter over the years. I made the mistake of not seeing how crucial the behavior was and the damage it was creating between me and my daughter. I feel my sister should be the adult and not try to gain my daughters love by driving a wedge between the two of us. </p><p>Hopefully with continued improvement with my disability, I will soon be able to branch out on my own and leave those two to mingle amongst themselves. I feel if I remove myself from the equation, my sister will eventually see the damage she has created.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cjc, post: 749605, member: 24127"] Hi Gettin’Older, thank you for reading and responding to my post. I am a step ahead of your suggestion of speaking to my sister. I have tried to speak to her regarding the situation on numerous occasions. She doesn’t make things any better. Every time I begin to approach her, she begins yelling. She’ll say she’s sick of both me and my daughter, we both need therapy, she wish we would leave her alone with all of our foolishness, just leave my daughter alone if she doesn’t want to be bothered. My sister never had children. The three of us have always lived together. Years ago when my daughter was around 8, I began noticing how my sister was spoiling my daughter with material things. I was constantly telling her not to extend everything to her. My sister gets angry because I tell her she is responsible for my daughters spoiled behavior. Friends and other family members have made comments about my sisters persuasive behavior with my daughter over the years. I made the mistake of not seeing how crucial the behavior was and the damage it was creating between me and my daughter. I feel my sister should be the adult and not try to gain my daughters love by driving a wedge between the two of us. Hopefully with continued improvement with my disability, I will soon be able to branch out on my own and leave those two to mingle amongst themselves. I feel if I remove myself from the equation, my sister will eventually see the damage she has created. [/QUOTE]
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