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Adult daughter stole entire life savings-Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 629881" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Jeanne,</p><p></p><p>As husband and i think our difficult child has anti-social behavior disorder, we have also read a lot - though not as much as MWM. One thing I have read time and time again, is NEVER allow them access to your finances. That sounds like a clue, right there, that your daughter may have this. They feel entitled, never remorseful. They see people as objects - how can this "thing" get me to where I deserve to be? But, it is your baby grown into an adult you love. How many parents would really believe this? Our difficult child was a jerk, so it was easier for us. He seldom <em>played nice.</em></p><p></p><p>Painful for us, but part of the disorder. I remember, years and years ago, putting a "stop" on our bank accounts. You could only access the accounts in the bank if you were husband or me, with a photo ID. We knew then not to trust him.</p><p></p><p> Something had happened.</p><p></p><p>ONLY BECAUSE, difficult child took a church check from our kitchen counter, visited our pastor, got one of his business cards, and opened a checking account with that church check. Guess what. There was no endorsement on the back of the check; neither was there a teller # stamped on it. He was that glib. (though, we figure the teller was in kahoots with him?) We filed a police report, but nothing ever came of it. My brother, an attorney, predicted there never would be. It was a $500 check, huge to us (!), but my brother said it was not enough for the bank to pursue.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 629881, member: 17635"] Jeanne, As husband and i think our difficult child has anti-social behavior disorder, we have also read a lot - though not as much as MWM. One thing I have read time and time again, is NEVER allow them access to your finances. That sounds like a clue, right there, that your daughter may have this. They feel entitled, never remorseful. They see people as objects - how can this "thing" get me to where I deserve to be? But, it is your baby grown into an adult you love. How many parents would really believe this? Our difficult child was a jerk, so it was easier for us. He seldom [I]played nice.[/I] Painful for us, but part of the disorder. I remember, years and years ago, putting a "stop" on our bank accounts. You could only access the accounts in the bank if you were husband or me, with a photo ID. We knew then not to trust him. Something had happened. ONLY BECAUSE, difficult child took a church check from our kitchen counter, visited our pastor, got one of his business cards, and opened a checking account with that church check. Guess what. There was no endorsement on the back of the check; neither was there a teller # stamped on it. He was that glib. (though, we figure the teller was in kahoots with him?) We filed a police report, but nothing ever came of it. My brother, an attorney, predicted there never would be. It was a $500 check, huge to us (!), but my brother said it was not enough for the bank to pursue. [/QUOTE]
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