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<blockquote data-quote="jeanne in CA" data-source="post: 629431" data-attributes="member: 18036"><p>She finally showed up with neither her husband nor an attorney. She had brought our precious granddaughter. We told her we knew she had been siphoning funds from our accounts and specifically told her about two bank accounts, an investment account, and the ATM withdrawal. She was hostile and sarcastic and totally denied any wrong doing. Her dad told her that we knew now that we probably have no choice. but to send her to jail He asked her if she was going to come forward and tell us everything or if she was going to deny everything yet again, giving us no choice but to pursue criminal action against her.</p><p>My husband asked her repeatedly if she was going to come forward. We both asked her several times what she had done with the money. She just responded, “You think I made all this up?” She told her dad, “You want the truth? Your wife has not been telling you the truth for three years!” She was terrified of telling you I was helping her!” He said, “You are right, I have not been in the loop as much as I should have been but that stops today!” “Your mom and I today, <em>as a unit</em>, will see to that. You are nothing but lies and deception. And, furthermore, we are getting your husband involved as well! ” She replied, “He knows everything. I told him everything!” Her dad said, “Well he is going to hear it from us!” At that point, she just said, “He’s working today so good luck with that.”</p><p>The discussion continued in the same vein for several minutes until her dad told her “We don’t want you anywhere close to us. You only bring problems. This is not going to go away. The only hope we had was for you to be truthful. We are in the process of assessing the damage and trying to see how we can protect you but it is not worth it with that kind of attitude.” I then said, “We have to report everything. We have no choice.” Her dad told her, “There may be other people involved and we are not going to protect them, so we have to report everything.” She responded, “If you do, I am confident of the fact that you will find nothing. Good luck digging as far as you can dig. Take it as far as you want to take it. You are not going to find anything." Her dad finally told her, “Get out and do not come back here.” He tried to call her husband on his phone and then said to me, “He doesn’t answer.” She said, “Go ahead. Good one though. Good try.” He left a voicemail.</p><p>I very calmly, in a voice that sounded tight and hollow to my own ears, told her that it was clear that none of the people supposedly involved in my bank stuff ever existed. She said that was not true. Even after all that had taken place, I held out a tiny bit of hope that maybe, just maybe she was telling at least a little truth, so I asked; “Can you produce even <em>one</em> of these people?” She said, “I can definitely produce these people. It will all come out in court and I have every confidence in the world.” Then I asked, “Then can you produce my money?” She said, “What money?” I replied, “The thousands of dollars that are missing from all my accounts!” She said, ‘I know we can meet with these people and figure this all out.” “For the past three years I have done nothing but try to help you.”</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jeanne in CA, post: 629431, member: 18036"] She finally showed up with neither her husband nor an attorney. She had brought our precious granddaughter. We told her we knew she had been siphoning funds from our accounts and specifically told her about two bank accounts, an investment account, and the ATM withdrawal. She was hostile and sarcastic and totally denied any wrong doing. Her dad told her that we knew now that we probably have no choice. but to send her to jail He asked her if she was going to come forward and tell us everything or if she was going to deny everything yet again, giving us no choice but to pursue criminal action against her. My husband asked her repeatedly if she was going to come forward. We both asked her several times what she had done with the money. She just responded, “You think I made all this up?” She told her dad, “You want the truth? Your wife has not been telling you the truth for three years!” She was terrified of telling you I was helping her!” He said, “You are right, I have not been in the loop as much as I should have been but that stops today!” “Your mom and I today, [I]as a unit[/I], will see to that. You are nothing but lies and deception. And, furthermore, we are getting your husband involved as well! ” She replied, “He knows everything. I told him everything!” Her dad said, “Well he is going to hear it from us!” At that point, she just said, “He’s working today so good luck with that.” The discussion continued in the same vein for several minutes until her dad told her “We don’t want you anywhere close to us. You only bring problems. This is not going to go away. The only hope we had was for you to be truthful. We are in the process of assessing the damage and trying to see how we can protect you but it is not worth it with that kind of attitude.” I then said, “We have to report everything. We have no choice.” Her dad told her, “There may be other people involved and we are not going to protect them, so we have to report everything.” She responded, “If you do, I am confident of the fact that you will find nothing. Good luck digging as far as you can dig. Take it as far as you want to take it. You are not going to find anything." Her dad finally told her, “Get out and do not come back here.” He tried to call her husband on his phone and then said to me, “He doesn’t answer.” She said, “Go ahead. Good one though. Good try.” He left a voicemail. I very calmly, in a voice that sounded tight and hollow to my own ears, told her that it was clear that none of the people supposedly involved in my bank stuff ever existed. She said that was not true. Even after all that had taken place, I held out a tiny bit of hope that maybe, just maybe she was telling at least a little truth, so I asked; “Can you produce even [I]one[/I] of these people?” She said, “I can definitely produce these people. It will all come out in court and I have every confidence in the world.” Then I asked, “Then can you produce my money?” She said, “What money?” I replied, “The thousands of dollars that are missing from all my accounts!” She said, ‘I know we can meet with these people and figure this all out.” “For the past three years I have done nothing but try to help you.” [/QUOTE]
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