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Adult son back in jail for the nth time
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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 679964" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Aww thanks Detaching, I am having a head fight with myself right now. Just found out Tornado will be at my nieces birthday party. I am really torn about going, haven't spoken with her for 6 months, and don't know what to expect. I do not want to have a breakdown at the party, you know?</p><p>The part on enabling, yes definitely worth repeating....</p><p>Thanks, it is my choice, well for Rain, last encounter was frightening. She rushed me, I believe it is called looming...one inch from my face screaming and swearing.....no, do not want to go through that ever.</p><p>Tornado, it was ugly too. Extremely disrespectful.</p><p>In all honesty my heart has taken some direct hits that struck me to my core, and I am battle weary. Not ready to open the door. If that makes me cold, so be it. I have got to take the time I need to regroup and strengthen myself for whatever comes along. <em>SIGH.</em></p><p> Haven't seen rotting teeth, but extreme weight loss and mood swings from down, down, down to agitated and chatty, to mania and just plain old crazy talk.....and aging face.....yes, the picture of meth. With Tornado, it is the acne and manic phases.</p><p> Yup, so distance it is for me. Tornado is stubborn and has done this before, where she will not call. I am obliging by not attempting to contact her. I am stubborn too, feel an apology is owed, but probably won't come anytime soon. I gave them to God to watch over, it is too big for me to handle at this time. I think I am leaning towards not attending this birthday party. I imagine myself just breaking down in big old sloppy tears, not a good scene for my nieces party.</p><p></p><p>Thanks Detaching for your response and support. You guys have stuff of your own to work on. What a bunch we are, huh? We are tough warriors, the hardest things, we go through.</p><p></p><p>I think for my two, whatever it is that ails them is certainly compounded, or even began with drug use.</p><p></p><p>One day, hopefully, they will wake up and decide to walk a different path.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 679964, member: 19522"] Aww thanks Detaching, I am having a head fight with myself right now. Just found out Tornado will be at my nieces birthday party. I am really torn about going, haven't spoken with her for 6 months, and don't know what to expect. I do not want to have a breakdown at the party, you know? The part on enabling, yes definitely worth repeating.... Thanks, it is my choice, well for Rain, last encounter was frightening. She rushed me, I believe it is called looming...one inch from my face screaming and swearing.....no, do not want to go through that ever. Tornado, it was ugly too. Extremely disrespectful. In all honesty my heart has taken some direct hits that struck me to my core, and I am battle weary. Not ready to open the door. If that makes me cold, so be it. I have got to take the time I need to regroup and strengthen myself for whatever comes along. [I]SIGH.[/I] Haven't seen rotting teeth, but extreme weight loss and mood swings from down, down, down to agitated and chatty, to mania and just plain old crazy talk.....and aging face.....yes, the picture of meth. With Tornado, it is the acne and manic phases. Yup, so distance it is for me. Tornado is stubborn and has done this before, where she will not call. I am obliging by not attempting to contact her. I am stubborn too, feel an apology is owed, but probably won't come anytime soon. I gave them to God to watch over, it is too big for me to handle at this time. I think I am leaning towards not attending this birthday party. I imagine myself just breaking down in big old sloppy tears, not a good scene for my nieces party. Thanks Detaching for your response and support. You guys have stuff of your own to work on. What a bunch we are, huh? We are tough warriors, the hardest things, we go through. I think for my two, whatever it is that ails them is certainly compounded, or even began with drug use. One day, hopefully, they will wake up and decide to walk a different path. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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