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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 705392" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>I agree with others who have responded. YOU and your husband need to build your life around yourselves. YOUR kids are walking out their lives. It sounds like daughter has major commitment issues. She is unhappy in her life at the present time and takes it out on you. It's her issues she needs to solve for herself. Keep conversations with daughter short and brief. Let her know you love her and that she will figure out her life. If she gets mean or nasty or rude, tell her you have to go and will talk to her later. Don't take the bait of her letting you be her whipping dog. Get the book "Stop walking on Eggshells: Taking your life back".</p><p></p><p>Son and girlfriend- well it is what it is for now; perhaps girlfriend will come around. At least son is sympathetic to you and all that you are going through. That is a plus. So many of our adult Difficult Child are not sympathetic and very me me personalities.</p><p></p><p>Your Mum and sister. Is sister the executor of Mum, have power of attorney? If so, you should seek legal counseling to see what your rights are with visitation to your Mum and how to handle sister and her devious dealings to get you out of family.</p><p></p><p>You will need to focus more on you and hubby and living out your life and doing things that make you happy. Maybe travel, find new hobbies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 705392, member: 19951"] I agree with others who have responded. YOU and your husband need to build your life around yourselves. YOUR kids are walking out their lives. It sounds like daughter has major commitment issues. She is unhappy in her life at the present time and takes it out on you. It's her issues she needs to solve for herself. Keep conversations with daughter short and brief. Let her know you love her and that she will figure out her life. If she gets mean or nasty or rude, tell her you have to go and will talk to her later. Don't take the bait of her letting you be her whipping dog. Get the book "Stop walking on Eggshells: Taking your life back". Son and girlfriend- well it is what it is for now; perhaps girlfriend will come around. At least son is sympathetic to you and all that you are going through. That is a plus. So many of our adult Difficult Child are not sympathetic and very me me personalities. Your Mum and sister. Is sister the executor of Mum, have power of attorney? If so, you should seek legal counseling to see what your rights are with visitation to your Mum and how to handle sister and her devious dealings to get you out of family. You will need to focus more on you and hubby and living out your life and doing things that make you happy. Maybe travel, find new hobbies. [/QUOTE]
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