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<blockquote data-quote="Mamaof5" data-source="post: 355881"><p>As another poster said - there's a reason why they asked you not to talk to him about it. It's not only for the fact that the story gets muddled as it's retold. It's because children honest are so suggestive mind wise that things like projection onto another person happen, no cognitive memory skills in identified suspected persons involved and associative memory to others that are familiar to them rather than the "abuser". Although, it seems their stories match up almost to the "T"</p><p></p><p>I'm not saying the above to be a B!tch or mean spirited. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual assault (age 9) and suppressed it until age 14. There's also suppression issues, the mind of a child just can't compute with the sensory stimuli of abuse like that and a lot of suppression and denial happens because they can't emotionally process it at all. If SS isn't helping you suss out a family center or a psychiatric yourself that deals with children and sexual assault. Do you have a victim's service center or something similar? Seek out the help that SS is dragging their feet about and then have that help you placed yourself deal with SS to get other services that may be needed. Pro to pro usually gets you further faster than parent to pro. Your local police department should have the Victim's Services or a Crisis Center number for you to call. Even Kids Help Line International might have some resources for you locally. Be proactive about it and then come at SS showing them you are being proactive and serious about this situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mamaof5, post: 355881"] As another poster said - there's a reason why they asked you not to talk to him about it. It's not only for the fact that the story gets muddled as it's retold. It's because children honest are so suggestive mind wise that things like projection onto another person happen, no cognitive memory skills in identified suspected persons involved and associative memory to others that are familiar to them rather than the "abuser". Although, it seems their stories match up almost to the "T" I'm not saying the above to be a B!tch or mean spirited. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual assault (age 9) and suppressed it until age 14. There's also suppression issues, the mind of a child just can't compute with the sensory stimuli of abuse like that and a lot of suppression and denial happens because they can't emotionally process it at all. If SS isn't helping you suss out a family center or a psychiatric yourself that deals with children and sexual assault. Do you have a victim's service center or something similar? Seek out the help that SS is dragging their feet about and then have that help you placed yourself deal with SS to get other services that may be needed. Pro to pro usually gets you further faster than parent to pro. Your local police department should have the Victim's Services or a Crisis Center number for you to call. Even Kids Help Line International might have some resources for you locally. Be proactive about it and then come at SS showing them you are being proactive and serious about this situation. [/QUOTE]
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