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<blockquote data-quote="worriedmummy" data-source="post: 356036"><p>Do you think it is possible that his 'issues' have just grown in time? Rather than having heard something/abuse..is it possible to just be born this way/brain wired a bit 'wrong'?</p><p> </p><p>From a very young age my son has been facinated with girls..At the age of 2 he used to want to be a girl, and told me this hundresd of times..At any opertunity he would wear dresses, wigs and high shoes..On one occation I found him to have my knickers on underneath his clothes..and have found knickers under his bed..He refused to play with boys at nursary and still struggles around boys at school/park etc..</p><p> </p><p>He has since grown out of wearing girls clothes/underwear ( but I did catch him with a tu-tu on last week and nothing else) and has had a couple of friends that are boys at school over the last year..Although he has experienced some bullying and I have been into the school regarding this and the bullies have stopped..</p><p> </p><p>When I was pregnant with my son I found out his father had sexually assulted both my younger sisters (one a minor). This got taken to court and he was found not guilty..My son has NEVER known about this, this happened when I was pregnant..The father has since emegrated and he has NEVER or will NEVER be alowed any sort of access to my son..</p><p> </p><p>I cant help but feel that this was 'always' going to happen..I have dissmissed these feelings as I believed that there is no way that such a thing could be hereditary..</p><p> </p><p>My son has always wanted to dress my daughter in the outfits he has chosen, plat her hair before school and play 'her' doll games with her..I have insisted before that he leaves her alone to play sometimes as she can get frustrated with him always in her hair! He can be rather bossy and tease her constantly..And I have done my bast to stop this but it appears to have got worse over the last while..</p><p> </p><p>I have thought that maybe he was/or will be gay later in life..but this didnt bother me as I would always support and love my children regardless of their sexuality..</p><p> </p><p>I AM NOT dissmissing the fact something could have happened/been seen/spoken about..I am just trying to work out what has happened to make him do this to his little sister..</p><p> </p><p>Thank you again for all the replies..(please excuse my terrible spellings!)</p><p> </p><p>Im STILL waiting for a call from Social Services..I left ANOTHER message at 9am this morning..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="worriedmummy, post: 356036"] Do you think it is possible that his 'issues' have just grown in time? Rather than having heard something/abuse..is it possible to just be born this way/brain wired a bit 'wrong'? From a very young age my son has been facinated with girls..At the age of 2 he used to want to be a girl, and told me this hundresd of times..At any opertunity he would wear dresses, wigs and high shoes..On one occation I found him to have my knickers on underneath his clothes..and have found knickers under his bed..He refused to play with boys at nursary and still struggles around boys at school/park etc.. He has since grown out of wearing girls clothes/underwear ( but I did catch him with a tu-tu on last week and nothing else) and has had a couple of friends that are boys at school over the last year..Although he has experienced some bullying and I have been into the school regarding this and the bullies have stopped.. When I was pregnant with my son I found out his father had sexually assulted both my younger sisters (one a minor). This got taken to court and he was found not guilty..My son has NEVER known about this, this happened when I was pregnant..The father has since emegrated and he has NEVER or will NEVER be alowed any sort of access to my son.. I cant help but feel that this was 'always' going to happen..I have dissmissed these feelings as I believed that there is no way that such a thing could be hereditary.. My son has always wanted to dress my daughter in the outfits he has chosen, plat her hair before school and play 'her' doll games with her..I have insisted before that he leaves her alone to play sometimes as she can get frustrated with him always in her hair! He can be rather bossy and tease her constantly..And I have done my bast to stop this but it appears to have got worse over the last while.. I have thought that maybe he was/or will be gay later in life..but this didnt bother me as I would always support and love my children regardless of their sexuality.. I AM NOT dissmissing the fact something could have happened/been seen/spoken about..I am just trying to work out what has happened to make him do this to his little sister.. Thank you again for all the replies..(please excuse my terrible spellings!) Im STILL waiting for a call from Social Services..I left ANOTHER message at 9am this morning.. [/QUOTE]
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