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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 535122" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Well one thing I do know is that if the police are getting a bit tired of getting called out on domestics they are going to take the decision out of your hands of whether or not to prosecute. He committed a crime against your and your property and that isnt something that can just go away because you say its okay. I forgive him. The state wont forgive him. </p><p></p><p>Im not sure you can tell them to go away if they have a warrant. In fact I know you cant. If they have a warrant they can come in and go anywhere the warrant says they can. You can read the warrant and see what it says they can do but Im pretty sure it will be in legalese that you wont understand well. Most likely it will say they can search your sons room, take pictures of the damage, maybe search other areas. If your son is on any sort of probation then they can come in at any time anyway. </p><p></p><p>And I agree with Star that no mother wants her child in jail, you would rather have him find his way in the real world but does your son seem to have any motivation to do that? From your signature he doesnt have any real diagnosis and wont cooperate with getting one. If that is the case then SSI and disability is out of the realm of possibility. Just an angry ticked off kid isnt just cause for disability or the jails would be full of disabled people. </p><p></p><p>Really he just needs to learn to get a job and live on his own. That would make him feel better about himself. Living with parents is bad for adult kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 535122, member: 1514"] Well one thing I do know is that if the police are getting a bit tired of getting called out on domestics they are going to take the decision out of your hands of whether or not to prosecute. He committed a crime against your and your property and that isnt something that can just go away because you say its okay. I forgive him. The state wont forgive him. Im not sure you can tell them to go away if they have a warrant. In fact I know you cant. If they have a warrant they can come in and go anywhere the warrant says they can. You can read the warrant and see what it says they can do but Im pretty sure it will be in legalese that you wont understand well. Most likely it will say they can search your sons room, take pictures of the damage, maybe search other areas. If your son is on any sort of probation then they can come in at any time anyway. And I agree with Star that no mother wants her child in jail, you would rather have him find his way in the real world but does your son seem to have any motivation to do that? From your signature he doesnt have any real diagnosis and wont cooperate with getting one. If that is the case then SSI and disability is out of the realm of possibility. Just an angry ticked off kid isnt just cause for disability or the jails would be full of disabled people. Really he just needs to learn to get a job and live on his own. That would make him feel better about himself. Living with parents is bad for adult kids. [/QUOTE]
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