you wonderful ladies have been great and i appreciate your help and support so much! i have yet another question lol what age have you ladies gotten your children the neuropsychologist evaluations? i talked to difficult child's behavior specialist yesterday and expressed to her that i would like him to have one. she didnt shoot me right down so i think we are making progress lol but she did say she wasnt sure about being able to get a good evaluation of what may be going on at his age, 3 years, because the neuropsychologist is alot of questions and she said, and i agree mostly, that difficult child may not be able to answer most of the questions. so i was wondering if we may have to wait a bit, or are there neuropsychs who specifically work with children this young? im hoping that when we go to his neurology apt on the 23rd that all this worrying will be for nothing and she will have answers and names to refer us to, but im also not going to hold my breath....she hasnt exactly wowed us with her ability to help Know what I mean?? i think if i dont get the answers i will be calling his pediatrician and having him referred over to my neurologists office, they have a dr, an actual md, not a crnp, that takes peds and they take my primary insurance. and im sorry if i offended anyone with the crnp remark, ive had good and bad experience with them, this time just deosnt seem to be a very good one. anyways now that ive rambled.....thanks again for any help!