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Ah yes, that searing stab to the heart called betrayal
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<blockquote data-quote="Farmwife" data-source="post: 372679" data-attributes="member: 8617"><p>Thanks you guys for a soft landing.</p><p> </p><p>The whole thing is insane-o as I like to call it. The problem is that the main sounding board is also the adult difficult child I mentioned not wanting to "adopt" in another thread. This person is sorely in need of an intervention of some sort, as is the rest of the family for that matter. lol difficult child loves the adult difficult child because they are both mentally adolescents so not exactly a great role model for difficult child. Sadly, a lot of more serious and hurtful topics have been covered as well. *sigh* I was trying to down play how really badly I must look in my first post because I feel so bad about it. I am human and I know I said a few choice things like "loser" or what not, so when difficult child spread that it was major and made me look so so bad. The guy IS a loser, the things he does are beyond ridiculous but of course because I have an opinion I share with husband I'll end up being the bad guy.</p><p> </p><p>If my baby diva does something cute that I tell Great Grandma an aunt in the next state knows within the hour...news travels like wildfire around this farm. I could pass gas and they would all know what I ate the night before.</p><p> </p><p>I keep joking with husband about how truly messed up his family is if they are worse than mine. I told him that everyone has *those* relatives but most people have the sense not to live next door to them. I have a laundry list of my own dysfunction and it truly is frightening to find a bunch of people who make ME of all people seem sane and well adjusted. It boggles my mind sometimes to just watch them in action. We truly belong on an episode of Jerry Springer.</p><p> </p><p>I do try to keep a sense of humor over it. When I finally caught the doo doo bandit in the act and could prove it wasn't us (after many months of pretty rude comments from the real bandits owner) I was so happy. Even though it didn't take back the aggravation and offense I sure felt smug to prove I was right to husband. I know he must think I am a big whiney baby when I confide in him and am yelling non sensically about per doo doo several days in a row when he comes home like I am some detective on a stake out but I am always proven right months later and get to do my "told you so " dance. Doesn't amount to much but I get tired of feeling like I am the one who is crazy around here. I am fine, it's the rest of them that are wingnuts.</p><p> </p><p>I have that Machiavelli book and was just about to read it. I can play nice like the best of them but it gets on my nerves after awhile, the act just feels so fake. I'm not a rear kisser so better deal with being disliked.</p><p> </p><p>*wondering if I can put "happy pills" in the shared well water?*</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Farmwife, post: 372679, member: 8617"] Thanks you guys for a soft landing. The whole thing is insane-o as I like to call it. The problem is that the main sounding board is also the adult difficult child I mentioned not wanting to "adopt" in another thread. This person is sorely in need of an intervention of some sort, as is the rest of the family for that matter. lol difficult child loves the adult difficult child because they are both mentally adolescents so not exactly a great role model for difficult child. Sadly, a lot of more serious and hurtful topics have been covered as well. *sigh* I was trying to down play how really badly I must look in my first post because I feel so bad about it. I am human and I know I said a few choice things like "loser" or what not, so when difficult child spread that it was major and made me look so so bad. The guy IS a loser, the things he does are beyond ridiculous but of course because I have an opinion I share with husband I'll end up being the bad guy. If my baby diva does something cute that I tell Great Grandma an aunt in the next state knows within the hour...news travels like wildfire around this farm. I could pass gas and they would all know what I ate the night before. I keep joking with husband about how truly messed up his family is if they are worse than mine. I told him that everyone has *those* relatives but most people have the sense not to live next door to them. I have a laundry list of my own dysfunction and it truly is frightening to find a bunch of people who make ME of all people seem sane and well adjusted. It boggles my mind sometimes to just watch them in action. We truly belong on an episode of Jerry Springer. I do try to keep a sense of humor over it. When I finally caught the doo doo bandit in the act and could prove it wasn't us (after many months of pretty rude comments from the real bandits owner) I was so happy. Even though it didn't take back the aggravation and offense I sure felt smug to prove I was right to husband. I know he must think I am a big whiney baby when I confide in him and am yelling non sensically about per doo doo several days in a row when he comes home like I am some detective on a stake out but I am always proven right months later and get to do my "told you so " dance. Doesn't amount to much but I get tired of feeling like I am the one who is crazy around here. I am fine, it's the rest of them that are wingnuts. I have that Machiavelli book and was just about to read it. I can play nice like the best of them but it gets on my nerves after awhile, the act just feels so fake. I'm not a rear kisser so better deal with being disliked. *wondering if I can put "happy pills" in the shared well water?* [/QUOTE]
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