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Alec Baldwin - he's the pig
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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 37761" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>He DEFINITELY has anger issues, whatever else may be going on here! This all sounded VERY familiar to me because my ex- was (is!) just like that! </p><p></p><p>I've witnessed this myself, more times than I care to remember. It's like once something happens to unleash their anger (like the childs phone being turned off when he tried to call her) it all just starts pouring out of them! What started it in the first place might be almost inconsequential, but once it's started, there's no stopping it! My ex- could get this angry and out of control simply because he didn't like the expression on my face! The venom just pours out of them and the anger just escalates and escalates until it's ridiculously out of proportion to whatever kicked it off in the first place. It's certainly bullying and intimidation of the highest degree! And most people who do this are unapologetic about it afterwards. My ex- saw it as ... if I was awful enough to do whatever it was that angered him (like <em>looking</em> at him wrong!) then I <em>deserved</em> to have the full brunt of his anger unleashed on me, because it was <em>my</em> fault! He felt justified, even smug about it, because he had convinced himself that <em>I asked for it</em>! They are indulging themselves by venting all their anger and frustrations towards whatever unfortunate person happens to be their target! Sounds awful, but it's almost like they're verbally "relieving themselves" on whoever they're raging at! That may be what's going on here too ... poor kid!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 37761, member: 1883"] He DEFINITELY has anger issues, whatever else may be going on here! This all sounded VERY familiar to me because my ex- was (is!) just like that! I've witnessed this myself, more times than I care to remember. It's like once something happens to unleash their anger (like the childs phone being turned off when he tried to call her) it all just starts pouring out of them! What started it in the first place might be almost inconsequential, but once it's started, there's no stopping it! My ex- could get this angry and out of control simply because he didn't like the expression on my face! The venom just pours out of them and the anger just escalates and escalates until it's ridiculously out of proportion to whatever kicked it off in the first place. It's certainly bullying and intimidation of the highest degree! And most people who do this are unapologetic about it afterwards. My ex- saw it as ... if I was awful enough to do whatever it was that angered him (like [i]looking[/i] at him wrong!) then I [i]deserved[/i] to have the full brunt of his anger unleashed on me, because it was [i]my[/i] fault! He felt justified, even smug about it, because he had convinced himself that [i]I asked for it[/i]! They are indulging themselves by venting all their anger and frustrations towards whatever unfortunate person happens to be their target! Sounds awful, but it's almost like they're verbally "relieving themselves" on whoever they're raging at! That may be what's going on here too ... poor kid! [/QUOTE]
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