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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 469404" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>Sorry Nancy- I do know how hard this is. When KK was about 3 months old she and Kat were back at my house, middle of winter. I found out Kat was back in contact with-KK's father- her abuser. It was about 11:00 at night. I told her the choices- cut off all contact and stay at my house or leave. She put the baby in the stroller, had no car, nowhere to go and left. It felt like my heart had been ripped out. I barely ate or slept for several days. But I got up every day, ran the dogs, went to work, just kept putting one foot in front of the other. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever done, but really it was the only choice. I refused to support the insanity. It took awhile for me to feel normal and I didn't have contact with her for several months, but I knew it was the right thing. I also heard she was telling everybody how I just put her and KK out in a snowstorm for no reason other than I am mean. So that was awesome too. But I did get through it and I did get my head in a better place. Stay busy, busy, busy. Focus on you. Be good to yourself- you deserve it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 469404, member: 11235"] Sorry Nancy- I do know how hard this is. When KK was about 3 months old she and Kat were back at my house, middle of winter. I found out Kat was back in contact with-KK's father- her abuser. It was about 11:00 at night. I told her the choices- cut off all contact and stay at my house or leave. She put the baby in the stroller, had no car, nowhere to go and left. It felt like my heart had been ripped out. I barely ate or slept for several days. But I got up every day, ran the dogs, went to work, just kept putting one foot in front of the other. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever done, but really it was the only choice. I refused to support the insanity. It took awhile for me to feel normal and I didn't have contact with her for several months, but I knew it was the right thing. I also heard she was telling everybody how I just put her and KK out in a snowstorm for no reason other than I am mean. So that was awesome too. But I did get through it and I did get my head in a better place. Stay busy, busy, busy. Focus on you. Be good to yourself- you deserve it! [/QUOTE]
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