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almost 4-year old with impulse control problems
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<blockquote data-quote="Daniella" data-source="post: 699761" data-attributes="member: 20815"><p>Kim75062 thank you for all your advice and encouraging words. Don't sell your self short you have gained your wisdom in motherhood going through your life just like all of us. Thats why we are here giving and looking for help because are own unique journeys .</p><p>I completely relate with the whole 'fix' approach. Sadly it took me so long to accept this is who he is and no dr. Or therapy was going to change him. And as weird as it sounds ive grown to find good in some his compulsiveness. Like his need for adventure or show compassion and love (with boundaries of course were working on that lol). I finally accepted the sovereignty of everything. </p><p>And thats why im terrified of medicating him that he will change. Or never get to know himself. Or it will create a codependency for medications and other drugs.</p><p>But im just not sure if I can keep fighting that he might benefit. </p><p></p><p>Also thats very loving of you to remind your son hes not bad, that you will work on behavior together. I think I should try to remind my son the same. Thank you also for that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Daniella, post: 699761, member: 20815"] Kim75062 thank you for all your advice and encouraging words. Don't sell your self short you have gained your wisdom in motherhood going through your life just like all of us. Thats why we are here giving and looking for help because are own unique journeys . I completely relate with the whole 'fix' approach. Sadly it took me so long to accept this is who he is and no dr. Or therapy was going to change him. And as weird as it sounds ive grown to find good in some his compulsiveness. Like his need for adventure or show compassion and love (with boundaries of course were working on that lol). I finally accepted the sovereignty of everything. And thats why im terrified of medicating him that he will change. Or never get to know himself. Or it will create a codependency for medications and other drugs. But im just not sure if I can keep fighting that he might benefit. Also thats very loving of you to remind your son hes not bad, that you will work on behavior together. I think I should try to remind my son the same. Thank you also for that. [/QUOTE]
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