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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 670479" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>It is hard!</p><p></p><p>But they have left you no choice.</p><p></p><p>Your options are to support them for the rest of your lives, allowing them to destroy themselves on your dime, or pulling the plug on the money and letting them figure it out for themselves.</p><p></p><p>Maybe, when they realize that no one is going to support them while they do drugs, they will try another lifestyle.</p><p></p><p>Whatever they choose, it is their lives to live. Not yours. You can't make them do anything.</p><p></p><p>And your 'helping' hasn't helped.</p><p></p><p>We have all been there done that. It never works with our DCs.</p><p></p><p>I would sign the car over to your son as soon as possible and then go no-contact. The sooner they realize that you won't be coming to their rescue once again, the sooner they will have to make their own plans. They can do it. They just prefer that you do it for them. </p><p></p><p>I hope you had a good weekend.</p><p></p><p>Apple</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 670479, member: 16024"] It is hard! But they have left you no choice. Your options are to support them for the rest of your lives, allowing them to destroy themselves on your dime, or pulling the plug on the money and letting them figure it out for themselves. Maybe, when they realize that no one is going to support them while they do drugs, they will try another lifestyle. Whatever they choose, it is their lives to live. Not yours. You can't make them do anything. And your 'helping' hasn't helped. We have all been there done that. It never works with our DCs. I would sign the car over to your son as soon as possible and then go no-contact. The sooner they realize that you won't be coming to their rescue once again, the sooner they will have to make their own plans. They can do it. They just prefer that you do it for them. I hope you had a good weekend. Apple [/QUOTE]
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