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Am I enabling by feeding my son?
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 628607" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>What worries me is that you aren't making your own decisions. husband is making them at home and we are making them from here.</p><p> </p><p>We aren't you! We don't know all the details! We don't know why things are the way they are? No matter how much information you post on here we never will.</p><p> </p><p>The point is that you will get good and bad advice from this board. Mostly good but sometimes the advice just doesn't fit your situation (maybe it fits mine instead). So here is my advice. Sit down with your husband and discuss things. Sit down with your computer and read through some posts that relate to you. Sit down with a good book about raising difficult kids. Sit with your church members and discuss it. Sit with the police and discuss it. Your get my point.....</p><p> </p><p>THEN MAKE A DECISION! Unless your safety is a concern then you have time to decide what is right for you and your family.</p><p> </p><p>None of us will ever walk the exact same road and none of us have a one size fits all answer to the problems you are having. We can offer advice based on our own experiences but we can't fix things with a step by step plan.</p><p> </p><p>I know when my daughter finally moved out against my wishes I felt that my heart was being ripped out of my chest. I relate the feeling to watching that horrible gutting during "Brave Heart" with Mel Gibson. What I did have going for me was a husband who supported my decisions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 628607, member: 15473"] What worries me is that you aren't making your own decisions. husband is making them at home and we are making them from here. We aren't you! We don't know all the details! We don't know why things are the way they are? No matter how much information you post on here we never will. The point is that you will get good and bad advice from this board. Mostly good but sometimes the advice just doesn't fit your situation (maybe it fits mine instead). So here is my advice. Sit down with your husband and discuss things. Sit down with your computer and read through some posts that relate to you. Sit down with a good book about raising difficult kids. Sit with your church members and discuss it. Sit with the police and discuss it. Your get my point..... THEN MAKE A DECISION! Unless your safety is a concern then you have time to decide what is right for you and your family. None of us will ever walk the exact same road and none of us have a one size fits all answer to the problems you are having. We can offer advice based on our own experiences but we can't fix things with a step by step plan. I know when my daughter finally moved out against my wishes I felt that my heart was being ripped out of my chest. I relate the feeling to watching that horrible gutting during "Brave Heart" with Mel Gibson. What I did have going for me was a husband who supported my decisions. [/QUOTE]
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