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I have a friend/neighbor who works at a charter school. Both her kids went there. She moved to another charter school this year. Her daughter who is difficult child's age remained at the first school her son, two years younger moved to the new school with her.
Now, the charter schools are small. Her daughters (where she worked since she started school) has 180 kids K - 8. The new school has more but is also a high school.
We really banged heads this weekend. She told me that there is a boy at her school that is suspended anytime anything happens.
I asked her, "even if someone does something to him". She said YES. Doesn't matter. He needs to keep himself under control, "WE aren't going to deal with it." (OUTBURSTS)
I was trying to tell her this boy maynot react if someone isn't causing it. Still, her answer was the same.
While we were talking her daughter said, MOM, I kicked XXX the other day. Teacher just told me to stand by her desk a minute then told me to sit down. Her mom said, Oh.
I told her difficult child would be suspended if he ever touched anyone, in any form. She said, well this is unusual for her. So, it is ok for her to kick someone, and it is NOT ok from difficult child to.
Her reply was all you have to do is look at the students ..folder and if it is big you know they are trouble.
This is so unfair. I am steaming mad. If someone picked on her daughter and she said "shut up" it would be ok. difficult child just called home because he told someone to shut up and he was sent to the office. Nothing would ever happen to her kids because she has gone to school with them since day one. She is friends with all the teachers because it is such a small school.
difficult child eats lunch with the entire 8th grade, 364 students. Same with 7th and 6 grades. I feel so angry that they suspend this boy regardless of the circumstance. She says he is angry. YES, so am I and I do not even know him. You take a perfectly fine happy kid, have kids start picking on him and if he reacts he gets sent to the office. Over and over again. Yes, that would make me mad.
I told her about difficult child falling down the steps. I told her I requested a copy of the accident report and it tool 4 hours to get an answer. When I did get the report half his injuries were not listed.
She said, "oh, we don't even do one unless it is requested, then we back date it. As far as the injuries go, we would never check the body for anything." Well they have left elbow, right knee. It was both elbows, both knees, lump on head, bruise on hip. Painful wrists. She thought nothing of it.
I am just so upset I cannot even talk to her. She is proof that a perfectly fine student can be picked on, react, and suspended. Then the teachers talk and all think the student is a bad kid, and it happens over and over. This child is falling through the cracks and may get lost in our school system for something the TEACHERS are doing to him. I wish I knew who he was, I wish I knew the parents so I could tell them. This could happen to ANY kid. Then if the kid tells the teacher, they are called a snitch by a couple hundred kids. They are walked into in the hall, pushed into lockers, books knocked off their desks. If they tell them to stop, they get suspended. And they wonder where the anger comes from...
Now, the charter schools are small. Her daughters (where she worked since she started school) has 180 kids K - 8. The new school has more but is also a high school.
We really banged heads this weekend. She told me that there is a boy at her school that is suspended anytime anything happens.
I asked her, "even if someone does something to him". She said YES. Doesn't matter. He needs to keep himself under control, "WE aren't going to deal with it." (OUTBURSTS)
I was trying to tell her this boy maynot react if someone isn't causing it. Still, her answer was the same.
While we were talking her daughter said, MOM, I kicked XXX the other day. Teacher just told me to stand by her desk a minute then told me to sit down. Her mom said, Oh.
I told her difficult child would be suspended if he ever touched anyone, in any form. She said, well this is unusual for her. So, it is ok for her to kick someone, and it is NOT ok from difficult child to.
Her reply was all you have to do is look at the students ..folder and if it is big you know they are trouble.
This is so unfair. I am steaming mad. If someone picked on her daughter and she said "shut up" it would be ok. difficult child just called home because he told someone to shut up and he was sent to the office. Nothing would ever happen to her kids because she has gone to school with them since day one. She is friends with all the teachers because it is such a small school.
difficult child eats lunch with the entire 8th grade, 364 students. Same with 7th and 6 grades. I feel so angry that they suspend this boy regardless of the circumstance. She says he is angry. YES, so am I and I do not even know him. You take a perfectly fine happy kid, have kids start picking on him and if he reacts he gets sent to the office. Over and over again. Yes, that would make me mad.
I told her about difficult child falling down the steps. I told her I requested a copy of the accident report and it tool 4 hours to get an answer. When I did get the report half his injuries were not listed.
She said, "oh, we don't even do one unless it is requested, then we back date it. As far as the injuries go, we would never check the body for anything." Well they have left elbow, right knee. It was both elbows, both knees, lump on head, bruise on hip. Painful wrists. She thought nothing of it.
I am just so upset I cannot even talk to her. She is proof that a perfectly fine student can be picked on, react, and suspended. Then the teachers talk and all think the student is a bad kid, and it happens over and over. This child is falling through the cracks and may get lost in our school system for something the TEACHERS are doing to him. I wish I knew who he was, I wish I knew the parents so I could tell them. This could happen to ANY kid. Then if the kid tells the teacher, they are called a snitch by a couple hundred kids. They are walked into in the hall, pushed into lockers, books knocked off their desks. If they tell them to stop, they get suspended. And they wonder where the anger comes from...