Thanks! Thats how I feel. Strange way to put things; a bit of "Good enough for you but not me" lol. I have told many that tjeir hub is very sweet etc. But i never thought to inject "but he is not for me."
Not a huge deal but not exactly "right" either.
I aleays feel much guilt if I pull away from somebody. Sometimes I just neef to remind myself that I am doing so for a reason..