Agree with others.
She sounds petty and possibly jealous.
I find oddball comments like this bothersome as well (as you might have picked up on from my posts through the years)
If the person has more positive traits than negative and we e enjoyed many positive experiences together, I try to let oddball things go.
I recognize that over the years, although I certainly hope not, it’s possibke on a bad day, I’ve said something odd myself that needs letting go.
It’s different if this is intentiallt mean spirited and/or constant.
PS Just saw your updated post. If you feel she is passive aggressive and not a good friend, maybe you should pull back.
