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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 194938" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>My difficult child is like Crazy in Virginia's. always seems to land on her feet despite never paying any bills, trashing every apt. she has had, etc. She always finds someone to help her. I worried about all the credit stuff too and how would she support herself, etc. but she has managed to do it since she was 18. My easy child son (beginning to think he is more difficult child at this point) also owes lots of money to various people but he is 24 years old. If he wants to get his act together he'll have to figure it out on his own. I am done "helping" with both him and his sister. They were not brought up to be irresponsible and to follow every impulse that they have without thinking it through first, but that is what they do and they are adults so they can deal with the fallout.</p><p></p><p>Also, I like Star's idea of Plan B, which is your own plan of what you will do when Plan A goes haywire. It really does help and is so empowering. </p><p></p><p>Best of luck,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 194938, member: 3208"] My difficult child is like Crazy in Virginia's. always seems to land on her feet despite never paying any bills, trashing every apt. she has had, etc. She always finds someone to help her. I worried about all the credit stuff too and how would she support herself, etc. but she has managed to do it since she was 18. My easy child son (beginning to think he is more difficult child at this point) also owes lots of money to various people but he is 24 years old. If he wants to get his act together he'll have to figure it out on his own. I am done "helping" with both him and his sister. They were not brought up to be irresponsible and to follow every impulse that they have without thinking it through first, but that is what they do and they are adults so they can deal with the fallout. Also, I like Star's idea of Plan B, which is your own plan of what you will do when Plan A goes haywire. It really does help and is so empowering. Best of luck, Jane [/QUOTE]
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