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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 755861" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Copa, that is spot on. Wow. Really resonated.</p><p></p><p>In first world countries there is help for the disabled and indigent if the person asks for it and follows the rules. In the U.S. there are case managers for the disabled. They are very available if you reach out to them. And that's the problem.</p><p></p><p>While many people who need some help do ask for it with grave it seems that our difficult children are too lazy (I think it's mostly this) to seek out good services OR they just don't want to follow the rules that you must follow to, say, keep government housing. Or they pick drug using abusive partners who get kicked out. Or THEY refuse to stop using drugs. They start rejecting the help. They turn to those who love them and will do tons for them even if they break the rules and harm their children. And yes some people are indifferent about having custody of their kids. Kay is one. Your daughter in law is not a fit mother.</p><p></p><p>There is much these woman can do and little they will and they expect us to carry them for life. </p><p></p><p>I pray for all of us and all of them. Only God can change hearts in my opinion.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 755861, member: 23706"] Copa, that is spot on. Wow. Really resonated. In first world countries there is help for the disabled and indigent if the person asks for it and follows the rules. In the U.S. there are case managers for the disabled. They are very available if you reach out to them. And that's the problem. While many people who need some help do ask for it with grave it seems that our difficult children are too lazy (I think it's mostly this) to seek out good services OR they just don't want to follow the rules that you must follow to, say, keep government housing. Or they pick drug using abusive partners who get kicked out. Or THEY refuse to stop using drugs. They start rejecting the help. They turn to those who love them and will do tons for them even if they break the rules and harm their children. And yes some people are indifferent about having custody of their kids. Kay is one. Your daughter in law is not a fit mother. There is much these woman can do and little they will and they expect us to carry them for life. I pray for all of us and all of them. Only God can change hearts in my opinion. [/QUOTE]
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