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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 109338" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Thanks.....for being there, as always.</p><p></p><p>She is NOT eligible for assistance. She works for the State</p><p>AND has kept $4600 of the $4800 child support that she receives</p><p>for difficult child....who has lived with us for years. For some shocking reason she gave me $200 a month ago or so "for difficult child support".</p><p> :hammer: Her money goes for nonsense. She is adult ADHD but</p><p>over the years she continues to go for instant gratification and</p><p>truly has NO sense when it comes to money. None.</p><p></p><p>Example: (You won't believe this is true...but it is.) She</p><p>forgot she had an electric bill to pay. She has not spent $5 on</p><p>car repairs in well over a year. Her car has had rear lights out for three months...now, this week, it has died. SO what did</p><p>she do last week?? She went to a rent to own place and got a new</p><p>bedroom set for her little difficult child. Also didn't have the money for</p><p>medications for her last week so the kid has been expelled from after school daycare. Christmas is four days away and she hasn't bought presents for her kids BUT plans on spending at least $100</p><p>on presents for the two difficult children. :rolleyes:</p><p></p><p>Tonight I got a brilliant idea. Maybe I need to go to anger management classes because I am so blankin' sick of the stress that comes from her choices. I've never been an angry person but</p><p>I am close to where husband is...he simply says "I don't like her and</p><p>I don't want to even see her face." When she walks in the door</p><p>he quietly moves to another room. </p><p></p><p>Her siblings don't live here and are polite but stay distant as</p><p>they have been "used" and really, really resent how her choices</p><p>have absorbed the life husband and I lead. Her friends always were</p><p>difficult children but they are no longer friends. The biodad of her little girl is due out of prison this fall. If he has money...he will be back in her life. easy child/difficult child and especially difficult child who was abused</p><p>by him will both go down the tube if she lets biodad babysit their little sister. She will. No doubt about it. She wants to</p><p>be free of parenting.</p><p></p><p>It's like a bad novel that is longer than War & Peace. She can</p><p>justify anything in her own mind because she really isn't evil. She has no substance addictions. She is not really violent. She</p><p>will go way out of her way (ridiculously so) to help anyone who</p><p>is "a friend". Her intentions are great BUT...the beat goes on.</p><p></p><p>DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 109338, member: 35"] Thanks.....for being there, as always. She is NOT eligible for assistance. She works for the State AND has kept $4600 of the $4800 child support that she receives for difficult child....who has lived with us for years. For some shocking reason she gave me $200 a month ago or so "for difficult child support". [img]:hammer:[/img] Her money goes for nonsense. She is adult ADHD but over the years she continues to go for instant gratification and truly has NO sense when it comes to money. None. Example: (You won't believe this is true...but it is.) She forgot she had an electric bill to pay. She has not spent $5 on car repairs in well over a year. Her car has had rear lights out for three months...now, this week, it has died. SO what did she do last week?? She went to a rent to own place and got a new bedroom set for her little difficult child. Also didn't have the money for medications for her last week so the kid has been expelled from after school daycare. Christmas is four days away and she hasn't bought presents for her kids BUT plans on spending at least $100 on presents for the two difficult children. [img]:rolleyes:[/img] Tonight I got a brilliant idea. Maybe I need to go to anger management classes because I am so blankin' sick of the stress that comes from her choices. I've never been an angry person but I am close to where husband is...he simply says "I don't like her and I don't want to even see her face." When she walks in the door he quietly moves to another room. Her siblings don't live here and are polite but stay distant as they have been "used" and really, really resent how her choices have absorbed the life husband and I lead. Her friends always were difficult children but they are no longer friends. The biodad of her little girl is due out of prison this fall. If he has money...he will be back in her life. easy child/difficult child and especially difficult child who was abused by him will both go down the tube if she lets biodad babysit their little sister. She will. No doubt about it. She wants to be free of parenting. It's like a bad novel that is longer than War & Peace. She can justify anything in her own mind because she really isn't evil. She has no substance addictions. She is not really violent. She will go way out of her way (ridiculously so) to help anyone who is "a friend". Her intentions are great BUT...the beat goes on. DDD [/QUOTE]
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