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<blockquote data-quote="SeaGenieTx" data-source="post: 676322" data-attributes="member: 18773"><p>Thanks guys, what hurts the most (and it literally makes me sick to my stomach) is just how deliberately manipulative and cruel he has become towards me. I totally felt set up last night but it's my fault, I should have left well enough alone. Lesson learned.</p><p></p><p>I've tried SO friggin hard to stay positive, focus on myself, be the adult and bigger person and let my son know I love him, while detaching, but he hates me for kicking him out so he is going to punish me and hurt me for it endlessly. He literally set me up last night to suck me in then kick me in the head and leave. No thank you for helping him or taking him to a beautiful dinner (which was ruined), just a "I'm going to use you for a new car battery and nice dinner then "f" you Mom - see ya!".</p><p></p><p>I've always said "When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them". Need to take my own advice. I'll be ok - just feeling totally bruised and defeated. Does it even pay to be nice to people anymore? Everytime I do I just get taken advantage of and betrayed. I'm sick of it. I don't want to become bitter and selfish but maybe having that attitude for a while will save me intense pain.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening - my son truly showed me the worst side of him that I've ever seen and all I hope is karma comes and kicks his little butt and he suffers some truly hard knocks in life so he will become a nicer person. He is on his own. He won't get a damn thing from me ever again. It's a death in my book and I will grieve but survive the loss and move on with my life starting today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeaGenieTx, post: 676322, member: 18773"] Thanks guys, what hurts the most (and it literally makes me sick to my stomach) is just how deliberately manipulative and cruel he has become towards me. I totally felt set up last night but it's my fault, I should have left well enough alone. Lesson learned. I've tried SO friggin hard to stay positive, focus on myself, be the adult and bigger person and let my son know I love him, while detaching, but he hates me for kicking him out so he is going to punish me and hurt me for it endlessly. He literally set me up last night to suck me in then kick me in the head and leave. No thank you for helping him or taking him to a beautiful dinner (which was ruined), just a "I'm going to use you for a new car battery and nice dinner then "f" you Mom - see ya!". I've always said "When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them". Need to take my own advice. I'll be ok - just feeling totally bruised and defeated. Does it even pay to be nice to people anymore? Everytime I do I just get taken advantage of and betrayed. I'm sick of it. I don't want to become bitter and selfish but maybe having that attitude for a while will save me intense pain. Thanks for listening - my son truly showed me the worst side of him that I've ever seen and all I hope is karma comes and kicks his little butt and he suffers some truly hard knocks in life so he will become a nicer person. He is on his own. He won't get a damn thing from me ever again. It's a death in my book and I will grieve but survive the loss and move on with my life starting today. [/QUOTE]
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