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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 313556" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Good morning everyone--</p><p> </p><p>Thank you for listening and for all of your support....</p><p> </p><p>I know that I've been burning up the boards lately and haven't been such a good friend by posting on other threads. I'm sorry for that....I do apologize.</p><p> </p><p>My thoughts this morning are that this is going to get a lot worse.</p><p> </p><p>Evidently, difficult child was telling the school counselors that therapist suspected child abuse.</p><p> </p><p>And Marg, while I agree with you that consequences stand regardless....that will not be the way difficult child expects it to go. And based on previous experience, the psychiatric hospital will probably discharge her with the instructions that "OK--difficult child gets a clean slate now....the past is the past and we are starting fresh on a happy note. We won't allow any discussion of past mistakes."</p><p> </p><p>PLUS--last time she was hospitalized, the teachers simply waived all of her assignments and gave her "A"s for class work....so the grades she earned in the hospital were far better than the grades she earned in real life.</p><p> </p><p>So if you think about it--difficult child absolutely knows how to "play the game"....</p><p> </p><p>If the past is any indication, she is now absolved of all wrongdoing AND will end up passing all of classes this semester AND perhaps get her father charged with child abuse. That'll teach him!!</p><p> </p><p>For difficult child--this hospitalization is WIN--WIN--WIN.</p><p> </p><p>So, now I feel like I am waiting for the other shoe to drop....</p><p> </p><p>And I am wondering if her abuse accusations will cause us to lose custody of our children....?</p><p> </p><p>Does anyone know if CPS automatically takes both kids if one claims abuse?</p><p> </p><p>If difficult child does not come home right now....I kind of feel like maybe its for the best</p><p> </p><p>But if they take my son away from me I will be devastated--and he will suffer again needlessly for difficult child's own issues.</p><p> </p><p>Last time difficult child was in this particular hospital (crisis stabilization unit) I was crying and upset and very emotional about it--and I was accused of being "overly emotional" and suffering from "anxiety" and told that my overly emotional state was bad for difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>This time, I just kind of feel numb...</p><p> </p><p>So I'm sure that I will be told that my "lack of feeling" will be bad for difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>It seems we can never win with this child.</p><p> </p><p>We are always the "bad guy".</p><p> </p><p>My worst fear at this point is that her allegations will land husband in jail and/or that DS will be removed from our home.</p><p> </p><p>Please keep my family in your thoughts and prayers....</p><p> </p><p>Thank you</p><p> </p><p>--DaisyFace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 313556, member: 6546"] Good morning everyone-- Thank you for listening and for all of your support.... I know that I've been burning up the boards lately and haven't been such a good friend by posting on other threads. I'm sorry for that....I do apologize. My thoughts this morning are that this is going to get a lot worse. Evidently, difficult child was telling the school counselors that therapist suspected child abuse. And Marg, while I agree with you that consequences stand regardless....that will not be the way difficult child expects it to go. And based on previous experience, the psychiatric hospital will probably discharge her with the instructions that "OK--difficult child gets a clean slate now....the past is the past and we are starting fresh on a happy note. We won't allow any discussion of past mistakes." PLUS--last time she was hospitalized, the teachers simply waived all of her assignments and gave her "A"s for class work....so the grades she earned in the hospital were far better than the grades she earned in real life. So if you think about it--difficult child absolutely knows how to "play the game".... If the past is any indication, she is now absolved of all wrongdoing AND will end up passing all of classes this semester AND perhaps get her father charged with child abuse. That'll teach him!! For difficult child--this hospitalization is WIN--WIN--WIN. So, now I feel like I am waiting for the other shoe to drop.... And I am wondering if her abuse accusations will cause us to lose custody of our children....? Does anyone know if CPS automatically takes both kids if one claims abuse? If difficult child does not come home right now....I kind of feel like maybe its for the best But if they take my son away from me I will be devastated--and he will suffer again needlessly for difficult child's own issues. Last time difficult child was in this particular hospital (crisis stabilization unit) I was crying and upset and very emotional about it--and I was accused of being "overly emotional" and suffering from "anxiety" and told that my overly emotional state was bad for difficult child. This time, I just kind of feel numb... So I'm sure that I will be told that my "lack of feeling" will be bad for difficult child. It seems we can never win with this child. We are always the "bad guy". My worst fear at this point is that her allegations will land husband in jail and/or that DS will be removed from our home. Please keep my family in your thoughts and prayers.... Thank you --DaisyFace [/QUOTE]
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