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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 480054" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Everything you say makes so much sense and it is beyond me how they can't see it. Well maybe not, I guess if I look at their non difficult child-parent perspective, not realizing that difficult child parents KNOW what is best for their kid, I guess I can understand how it happens....but the system is just messed up and i think they all are stuck in their little parts, not able to see the whole. much like (but even less control) when one is forced to go to a bunch of medical specialists and no one wants to see the big picture. There are certainly many of us who can relate a little bit to you in that way. But as I said, not to this degree because you literally seem to have no rights, no recourse. Just one person could make such a difference here. Just one little change, like the date...to back it up for school reasons. They seem hell bent on causing more issues than were there in the first place.</p><p></p><p>You are really doing well here, keep venting and typing and getting it all out. It will really help ease your burden a little because those thoughts and injustices will just float around in your brain causing more stress. You are making yourself very clear. The problem is on their side. i dont know at what point I could ever just say, well...nothing I can do so?? I dont even know how much the serenity prayer (or if not a pray-er, at least that concept) would help me in this case. I suppose you can try.</p><p></p><p>luv, hugs, thoughts, care, Buddy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 480054, member: 12886"] Everything you say makes so much sense and it is beyond me how they can't see it. Well maybe not, I guess if I look at their non difficult child-parent perspective, not realizing that difficult child parents KNOW what is best for their kid, I guess I can understand how it happens....but the system is just messed up and i think they all are stuck in their little parts, not able to see the whole. much like (but even less control) when one is forced to go to a bunch of medical specialists and no one wants to see the big picture. There are certainly many of us who can relate a little bit to you in that way. But as I said, not to this degree because you literally seem to have no rights, no recourse. Just one person could make such a difference here. Just one little change, like the date...to back it up for school reasons. They seem hell bent on causing more issues than were there in the first place. You are really doing well here, keep venting and typing and getting it all out. It will really help ease your burden a little because those thoughts and injustices will just float around in your brain causing more stress. You are making yourself very clear. The problem is on their side. i dont know at what point I could ever just say, well...nothing I can do so?? I dont even know how much the serenity prayer (or if not a pray-er, at least that concept) would help me in this case. I suppose you can try. luv, hugs, thoughts, care, Buddy [/QUOTE]
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