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And the craziness just keeps on coming with 35 difficult child...
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 592155" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If you've ever known a narcissistic and unfortunately my father preceded him, this is what you would find, just in case you have an interest. My father is actually worse...he is convinced he is the most attractive, smartest and well liked person on earth, although he has never been any of those things and was generally disliked. My son is far less conceited and more realistic. What he shares is the belief that the world revolves around him and that nobody else matters plus he has done some really "iffy" things that he claims he doesn't remember, such as forcing my daughter Julie to watch porn movies when she is eight. This qualifies as sexual abuse of a minor, but she didn't tell me until she was an adult and does not want to get into it with him...she just doesn't want a relationship with him. Yet 35 will often say, "It would be so great if Julie and me were close." When I brought the abuse up to him he clalims he has no memory of high school. This may be true. He has a lot of mental health problems. However, when he did it, he knew w hat he was doing. He knew an eight year old should not be watching that. And, remember, Julie says he FORCED her to watch, wouldn't let her leave. I believe Julie 100%. And I half believe 35 has no memory of it because he is a high IQ man. He would be able to figure out why Julie wants nothing to do with him. I am almost positive he never does abusive stuff to J. J. adores him (Julie didn't). But Julie is always voicing concerns about J. All I can say is, I'm glad 35 is in Missouri. </p><p></p><p>When I think of my "real" family, those who openly love one another and are caring, I think of my special husband, my daughter Julie whom I adore, Sonic who EVERYONE loves because you can't help it, and Jumper who is the best teenager in the world (I'm not prejudiced...hehe). I really don't think of 35 is as one of us...he isn't connected to us emotionally, except to me and that is in an unhealthy way. </p><p></p><p>I feel guilty about how I feel about him, but honestly...I really can't help it. If Scott had not disappeared from our lives, I'm not sure 35 would be even as much a part of my life as he is. Losing Scott makes me hang onto 35 by a thread. Since I don't know my Grandson, and that is largely his fault, I could probably let go of them...but the sting of Scott disowning us keeps 35 in the picture. I can't explain why. I don't get it myself. Which reminds me. I have to write another thread about Scott as a second vent. Hope you all don't get sick of me!</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/narcissistic-personality-disorder/DS00652/DSECTION=symptoms" target="_blank">http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/narcissistic-personality-disorder/DS00652/DSECTION=symptoms</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 592155, member: 1550"] If you've ever known a narcissistic and unfortunately my father preceded him, this is what you would find, just in case you have an interest. My father is actually worse...he is convinced he is the most attractive, smartest and well liked person on earth, although he has never been any of those things and was generally disliked. My son is far less conceited and more realistic. What he shares is the belief that the world revolves around him and that nobody else matters plus he has done some really "iffy" things that he claims he doesn't remember, such as forcing my daughter Julie to watch porn movies when she is eight. This qualifies as sexual abuse of a minor, but she didn't tell me until she was an adult and does not want to get into it with him...she just doesn't want a relationship with him. Yet 35 will often say, "It would be so great if Julie and me were close." When I brought the abuse up to him he clalims he has no memory of high school. This may be true. He has a lot of mental health problems. However, when he did it, he knew w hat he was doing. He knew an eight year old should not be watching that. And, remember, Julie says he FORCED her to watch, wouldn't let her leave. I believe Julie 100%. And I half believe 35 has no memory of it because he is a high IQ man. He would be able to figure out why Julie wants nothing to do with him. I am almost positive he never does abusive stuff to J. J. adores him (Julie didn't). But Julie is always voicing concerns about J. All I can say is, I'm glad 35 is in Missouri. When I think of my "real" family, those who openly love one another and are caring, I think of my special husband, my daughter Julie whom I adore, Sonic who EVERYONE loves because you can't help it, and Jumper who is the best teenager in the world (I'm not prejudiced...hehe). I really don't think of 35 is as one of us...he isn't connected to us emotionally, except to me and that is in an unhealthy way. I feel guilty about how I feel about him, but honestly...I really can't help it. If Scott had not disappeared from our lives, I'm not sure 35 would be even as much a part of my life as he is. Losing Scott makes me hang onto 35 by a thread. Since I don't know my Grandson, and that is largely his fault, I could probably let go of them...but the sting of Scott disowning us keeps 35 in the picture. I can't explain why. I don't get it myself. Which reminds me. I have to write another thread about Scott as a second vent. Hope you all don't get sick of me! [url]http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/narcissistic-personality-disorder/DS00652/DSECTION=symptoms[/url] [/QUOTE]
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