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And the craziness just keeps on coming with 35 difficult child...
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 592208" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Susie, wow. You sure nailed my biggest fear. He is obsessed with "J. is my BLOOD!" Now some other people are into that too, but 35 was raised that who loves you is your family and had four adopted siblings whom we obviously loved very much. He resented them, I think. But, yes, J. adores him now. Worships him. J. is five. I wonder what will happen when J. sees his less attractive traits. I fortunately do not see this selfishness in J. and I *did* see this in 35 as young as two. J. does not try to hurt other people and is a pretty normal, empathetic child who plays well with other kids, in spite of having two special needs parents. So I hope it doesn't wear on him in the end. But I sure can see 35 turning off to J. when he points out 35's less sterling traits or if, perchance, he starts to favor difficult child-ex. </p><p></p><p>You understand narcicistics, Sus. They love their kids as extensions of their own selves.</p><p></p><p>Ex is not enabling him. He tells him off and sets strict boundaries and ignores lots of what 35 says. He is better than me at this.</p><p></p><p>Susie, I never wanted 35 to have a child. I didn't see anything good coming from that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 592208, member: 1550"] Susie, wow. You sure nailed my biggest fear. He is obsessed with "J. is my BLOOD!" Now some other people are into that too, but 35 was raised that who loves you is your family and had four adopted siblings whom we obviously loved very much. He resented them, I think. But, yes, J. adores him now. Worships him. J. is five. I wonder what will happen when J. sees his less attractive traits. I fortunately do not see this selfishness in J. and I *did* see this in 35 as young as two. J. does not try to hurt other people and is a pretty normal, empathetic child who plays well with other kids, in spite of having two special needs parents. So I hope it doesn't wear on him in the end. But I sure can see 35 turning off to J. when he points out 35's less sterling traits or if, perchance, he starts to favor difficult child-ex. You understand narcicistics, Sus. They love their kids as extensions of their own selves. Ex is not enabling him. He tells him off and sets strict boundaries and ignores lots of what 35 says. He is better than me at this. Susie, I never wanted 35 to have a child. I didn't see anything good coming from that. [/QUOTE]
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