Buddy, I do not see it as critical at all. To answer your questions:
1. Yes, I did give her more attention than normal. Which is totally my fault. Normally easy child drives her and a friend to school. But today I had to take them because easy child is leaving for auditions. So, I am more anxious about being on time, because I am here alone to get her out the door to pick up friend and not be late.
2. I don't know if she was trying to escape or not. It is hard to tell. She looked exhausted last night. She swam for gym class, and she normally does not have much physical activity.
3. She takes her Celexa in the morning, so that has no bearing on it. And She took it this morning. So it wasn't the medications. If it had been something new, or an increase in the Abilify I would have waited.
4. I agree. She has a therapist appointment tomorrow. And she is more than willing to go to IOP. It is 3 days a week 3 hours a day, and lasts 6-8 weeks. I think that is where she will get the most benefit. And, that program has more of a family therapy. And, we need that. I want to be included in her treatment.
She ended up after all of that being ready early again this morning. Since she is swimming, she isn't wearing makeup. Saves so much time. I did apologize to her for not following the plan. And, I explained why I was so stressed out about it. She has riding lessons tonight, so the evening will go well. And, my mom will be here so she will be happy to see her too. Man, someone needs to invent that magic wand.