Well, Star:
Let's look at the positives:
1. He is working---that's good. I guess you can make a career out of being a farm laborer so..
2. He won't need an education...
3. He didn't ask you to pay the insurance. YET!
4. He didn't ask YOU to buy the car, YET!
5. He didn't ASK you to help with the dog, YET!
6. If this doesn't work out and he can't pay his probation and fines, well they do have work farms in the penal system!
Okay---so his reality is a little skewered to to the left (or the right depending on which side you're looking from!)
God bless his heart! (That's what I say about my difficult child when he loses touch with reality and thinks out a plan that will be impossible for him to accomplish!