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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 732485" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I am sorry. My mother never ate with me lol. But she criticized even the obviously good things I did. When I adopted hard to place kiddos and loved them to infinity (I still do) she accused me of only doing it for the money!! The thing is, I got no money but when I told her she baited me going "Yes you did! yes you did!"</p><p></p><p>Your father sounds narc. Therapists have told me my mother sounds borderline...people are all fabulous or all horrible to her. She didn't u derstand gray areas...it sucks to have either type of parent.</p><p></p><p> I didn't get invited to spend time with Mommie Dearest and may not have gone even if she had invited me. She REALLY didn't like me. I didn't like her either. i thought she was very mean to me. She was.</p><p></p><p>Looking back, knowing what I know now, that kind of interaction you had with your dad would urge me to detach from this man. However I did not know that at your age. I hope you don't engage him too often. How crappy of him to apologize to your brother but not you. Sounds like he has no golden child...the one who can do no wrong. Sounds like he criticizes you both, but maybe is nicer to your brother. It is his expression of self hate.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 732485, member: 1550"] I am sorry. My mother never ate with me lol. But she criticized even the obviously good things I did. When I adopted hard to place kiddos and loved them to infinity (I still do) she accused me of only doing it for the money!! The thing is, I got no money but when I told her she baited me going "Yes you did! yes you did!" Your father sounds narc. Therapists have told me my mother sounds borderline...people are all fabulous or all horrible to her. She didn't u derstand gray areas...it sucks to have either type of parent. I didn't get invited to spend time with Mommie Dearest and may not have gone even if she had invited me. She REALLY didn't like me. I didn't like her either. i thought she was very mean to me. She was. Looking back, knowing what I know now, that kind of interaction you had with your dad would urge me to detach from this man. However I did not know that at your age. I hope you don't engage him too often. How crappy of him to apologize to your brother but not you. Sounds like he has no golden child...the one who can do no wrong. Sounds like he criticizes you both, but maybe is nicer to your brother. It is his expression of self hate. [/QUOTE]
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