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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 246330" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. It does hurt some when you find that someone you turned to for help turned you in as a bad parent. Bad parents don't go looking for help.</p><p></p><p>You truly are a GREAT mother! If possible, just look at this as though they were trying to do the right thing and got confused. I remember being questioned in the Children's Hospital ER because I brought my daughter in for the 3rd time with a dislocated elbow. She would just suddenly sit down if she didn't want to go somewhere. And her elbow wasn't quite fully formed and would pop out of joint. For several months she did this every 3-4 weeks. It was kind of sad because they did show me how to put it back into place, but if it didn't go back the first time I took her to the ER. I didn't want to keep manipulating it and possibly hurt her worse. In this case they didn't report because they called our pediatrician and he vouched for me (it was MY pediatrician from childhood that they reached so he knew us very very well).</p><p></p><p>Get your Parent Report together. Keep it up to date with any new info you get. It can help prove that you are doing everything you can to help your child. If you don't have one, maybe you can use some of the time while Elijah is in the hospital to start it. Here is a link to the outling for a Parent Report: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10</a></p><p></p><p>It is best to work on this in chunks, not all at one time. Otherwise it can be rather overwhelming. I always kept copies of all reports and lab work from the doctors in this report. I even kept copies of the receipts from every doctor appointment that showed a diagnosis code on it in there so that I could show that we had been to all the docs. We did have a report filed on my daughter's behalf by our pediatrician. The one we have now (we are in a different state). It was because her bro was abusing her and we had just found out. She needed intense help for the problems he caused, so the doctor had to report it as abuse. It was not the greatest. Just make SURE someone from the hospital is with Elijah while they talk to him (if they talk to him). </p><p></p><p>Sending gentle hugs,</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 246330, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. It does hurt some when you find that someone you turned to for help turned you in as a bad parent. Bad parents don't go looking for help. You truly are a GREAT mother! If possible, just look at this as though they were trying to do the right thing and got confused. I remember being questioned in the Children's Hospital ER because I brought my daughter in for the 3rd time with a dislocated elbow. She would just suddenly sit down if she didn't want to go somewhere. And her elbow wasn't quite fully formed and would pop out of joint. For several months she did this every 3-4 weeks. It was kind of sad because they did show me how to put it back into place, but if it didn't go back the first time I took her to the ER. I didn't want to keep manipulating it and possibly hurt her worse. In this case they didn't report because they called our pediatrician and he vouched for me (it was MY pediatrician from childhood that they reached so he knew us very very well). Get your Parent Report together. Keep it up to date with any new info you get. It can help prove that you are doing everything you can to help your child. If you don't have one, maybe you can use some of the time while Elijah is in the hospital to start it. Here is a link to the outling for a Parent Report: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10[/url] It is best to work on this in chunks, not all at one time. Otherwise it can be rather overwhelming. I always kept copies of all reports and lab work from the doctors in this report. I even kept copies of the receipts from every doctor appointment that showed a diagnosis code on it in there so that I could show that we had been to all the docs. We did have a report filed on my daughter's behalf by our pediatrician. The one we have now (we are in a different state). It was because her bro was abusing her and we had just found out. She needed intense help for the problems he caused, so the doctor had to report it as abuse. It was not the greatest. Just make SURE someone from the hospital is with Elijah while they talk to him (if they talk to him). Sending gentle hugs, [/QUOTE]
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