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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 347838" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>YOu don't need security for what wm did. And depending on what kt has been up to, once word is out tat she's back in placement somewhere, I doubt anyone will come looking for her at your place. It does depend on exactly what she's been posting, and if she's been wittingly or unwittingly setting you up for a home invasion. A good security system may make you feel more secure at this time, I'd like to think you won't need it. But I don't know all the circumstances and I don't know your area.</p><p></p><p>A question: your earlier threads when you mentioned various people on the team expressing concern about your ability to parent at the moment, given your health and other issues - was this them really noticing independently, or was it kt trying to cry "poor me" and also devalue anything you might say or 'tell on' her? You know - you tell the team, "Kt was inappropriate this week," and kt responds with, "How would she know? She's been so ill, she sleeps all the time," and your credibility goes out the window, and kt gets away with whatever you were trying to alert the team to.</p><p></p><p>Am I close?</p><p></p><p>In which case - I hope your reputation with the team has now been restored.</p><p></p><p>It is too easy for people to take the easy option and only see the disability, not what you are still capable of doing. This makes it easy for people to abuse this and do harm to your good name. I had a stalker do this to me - he was writing letters about me, alleging my incompetence on the grounds of my ill-health (and alleged drug addiction!) at the same time as urging confidentiality (in extremely strong legal terms) re his letters and emails. My reputation, credibility and authority was badly undermined and it was only because the people the creep was talking to had more sense of honour than creep could ever understand, that I found out about it.</p><p></p><p>If this is what kt has been up to, even slightly, then she has, as you say, brought this all on herself.</p><p></p><p>That's why I say in my sig, "Body's cactus, brain still works!"</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. You have acted strongly, and without wasting time. Consequences.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 347838, member: 1991"] YOu don't need security for what wm did. And depending on what kt has been up to, once word is out tat she's back in placement somewhere, I doubt anyone will come looking for her at your place. It does depend on exactly what she's been posting, and if she's been wittingly or unwittingly setting you up for a home invasion. A good security system may make you feel more secure at this time, I'd like to think you won't need it. But I don't know all the circumstances and I don't know your area. A question: your earlier threads when you mentioned various people on the team expressing concern about your ability to parent at the moment, given your health and other issues - was this them really noticing independently, or was it kt trying to cry "poor me" and also devalue anything you might say or 'tell on' her? You know - you tell the team, "Kt was inappropriate this week," and kt responds with, "How would she know? She's been so ill, she sleeps all the time," and your credibility goes out the window, and kt gets away with whatever you were trying to alert the team to. Am I close? In which case - I hope your reputation with the team has now been restored. It is too easy for people to take the easy option and only see the disability, not what you are still capable of doing. This makes it easy for people to abuse this and do harm to your good name. I had a stalker do this to me - he was writing letters about me, alleging my incompetence on the grounds of my ill-health (and alleged drug addiction!) at the same time as urging confidentiality (in extremely strong legal terms) re his letters and emails. My reputation, credibility and authority was badly undermined and it was only because the people the creep was talking to had more sense of honour than creep could ever understand, that I found out about it. If this is what kt has been up to, even slightly, then she has, as you say, brought this all on herself. That's why I say in my sig, "Body's cactus, brain still works!" Hang in there. You have acted strongly, and without wasting time. Consequences. Marg [/QUOTE]
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