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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 81754" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>I left a similar reply in PE about the wedding ...</p><p></p><p>I think this is your daughters call. Not yours. If the bride and groom don't want him there because of past behaviors ... that is their decision to make. You need only to support their decision.</p><p></p><p>My daughter got married in July and I have done some things to intentionally stay connected. My favorite thing that we do is called "cooking school".</p><p></p><p>I bought her a really pretty recipe box complete with matching little cards. A couple of times each month we get together to cook a new recipe. Sometimes she picks the recipe sometimes I do. Then we go to each others house and cook up a storm. We write the recipe on one of her cards and date it. It has been a blast.</p><p></p><p>I also make 'family dinner's once or twice a month. They come over for a nice sit down meal, and then we usually take a walk. </p><p></p><p>It is good to find ways to connect one on one and with them as a couple. You may need to take the lead for a while. Keep it light ... keep it fun.</p><p></p><p>by the way ... your daughter may not like being around difficult child if he creates drama wherever he goes. You may need to find ways to get together apart from your difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 81754, member: 1545"] I left a similar reply in PE about the wedding ... I think this is your daughters call. Not yours. If the bride and groom don't want him there because of past behaviors ... that is their decision to make. You need only to support their decision. My daughter got married in July and I have done some things to intentionally stay connected. My favorite thing that we do is called "cooking school". I bought her a really pretty recipe box complete with matching little cards. A couple of times each month we get together to cook a new recipe. Sometimes she picks the recipe sometimes I do. Then we go to each others house and cook up a storm. We write the recipe on one of her cards and date it. It has been a blast. I also make 'family dinner's once or twice a month. They come over for a nice sit down meal, and then we usually take a walk. It is good to find ways to connect one on one and with them as a couple. You may need to take the lead for a while. Keep it light ... keep it fun. by the way ... your daughter may not like being around difficult child if he creates drama wherever he goes. You may need to find ways to get together apart from your difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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