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Another Disturbing Text from difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 633435" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, you don't NEED to know. I never wanted to know. What's the point? It changes nothing. Just makes you more scared. I'm glad I didn't know what my daughter was using until she quit because I would have been a mess. And it wouldn't have helped her one bit. She would not have stopped until she was ready. The same goes for your son. I would leave it be. You can't change it. None of us know what our difficult children do when they aren't with us. We have not a clue. And I think, since we have no control over their choices/addictions, it is better not to ask for details unless they show signs by dumping their drug friends and changing their lifestyles and ask us to help them find a place to detox. It doesn't sound like JT is there yet.</p><p></p><p>I don't think JT will be charged. The deceased isn't a minor. Bet the people charged had given drugs to a minor, not an adult. An adult can supposedly decide whether to take bad drugs; a minor is considered still not responsible for his actions completely. Just guessing. If he is charged with something though, he will have to face the consequences and maybe he will get help and finally decide to quit.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 633435, member: 1550"] Hon, you don't NEED to know. I never wanted to know. What's the point? It changes nothing. Just makes you more scared. I'm glad I didn't know what my daughter was using until she quit because I would have been a mess. And it wouldn't have helped her one bit. She would not have stopped until she was ready. The same goes for your son. I would leave it be. You can't change it. None of us know what our difficult children do when they aren't with us. We have not a clue. And I think, since we have no control over their choices/addictions, it is better not to ask for details unless they show signs by dumping their drug friends and changing their lifestyles and ask us to help them find a place to detox. It doesn't sound like JT is there yet. I don't think JT will be charged. The deceased isn't a minor. Bet the people charged had given drugs to a minor, not an adult. An adult can supposedly decide whether to take bad drugs; a minor is considered still not responsible for his actions completely. Just guessing. If he is charged with something though, he will have to face the consequences and maybe he will get help and finally decide to quit. [/QUOTE]
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