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<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 739851" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>Are drugs involved, he sounds like mine does when he is using. He can explode without but it is more likely with. Mine is also bipolar among other things. The things they say are meant to hurt us and they tend to go for the jugular. His tune would change if he got his way until he wanted something else then here we go again. Have you read the article on detachment on the Parent Emeritus page? It might help you to separate somewhat. You can choose what contact you want to have but my advice is not if he is being verbally abusive to you. If he is you need to end the conversation. Maybe emails or texts for awhile. There are many different limits set by different parents on here. Some have no contact others only allow certain times of day or so many times a week. That is your choice. Mine is if he is vulgar I hang up and block for up to a week. I will buy an occasional meal or something i feel is def. needed but absolutely nothing to do with cars. He has had dui charges. I try very hard not to help with rent but i Struggle and I do help to get to psychiatric appts. and court. More will offer support I am sure. Welcome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 739851, member: 21499"] Are drugs involved, he sounds like mine does when he is using. He can explode without but it is more likely with. Mine is also bipolar among other things. The things they say are meant to hurt us and they tend to go for the jugular. His tune would change if he got his way until he wanted something else then here we go again. Have you read the article on detachment on the Parent Emeritus page? It might help you to separate somewhat. You can choose what contact you want to have but my advice is not if he is being verbally abusive to you. If he is you need to end the conversation. Maybe emails or texts for awhile. There are many different limits set by different parents on here. Some have no contact others only allow certain times of day or so many times a week. That is your choice. Mine is if he is vulgar I hang up and block for up to a week. I will buy an occasional meal or something i feel is def. needed but absolutely nothing to do with cars. He has had dui charges. I try very hard not to help with rent but i Struggle and I do help to get to psychiatric appts. and court. More will offer support I am sure. Welcome. [/QUOTE]
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